"Paul don't reply just wanted 2 say that although i told u that i wasnt happy in our relationship,there where sum amazing times and i loved u dearly,u r a wonderful human being and i am sure u will complete ur courses,get a gr8 job +meet another lovely lady + be happy.when we r both stronger +not hurting so much im sur a friendship can develop it just just takes time.so please,look at 2007 as a year 4 new beginnings,new friendships + a better life,u deserve it"
Well this was after yesterday i called and went round to see her and she told me load of reasons why she broke up with me mainly moving apart we where together for 4 years it's been 6wks did not expect her to contact me we ended well apart from me keep asking why i moved out of our rented house but i wanted to stay friends she did to she is also dealing with anarexica and depression!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-27 00:23:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
please take this on board, you need to move on by ignoring this. i know its a cliche but i almost guarantee you will get emotionally hurt if you have contact with her. she obviously cares for you still and is wishing you all the best. thats nice.
now she might be looking for the same response back from you, a confidence boost from you like she gave you. its always hard to tell when the best time to be friends is because people move on at different times. both of u need to do new things, meet new people. i know its been 6 weeks but can you imagine what it would feel like when she meets someone else?? it won't be nice. not if you have been together 4 years. people always say they want to be friends. but you have to be realistic.you can be civil and kind but not friends. i really don't think that would work for you. if she has problems also, you feel obliged to help but that would be a burden on you and again you would get hurt. if you ended well, remember that and don't drag out your relationship/friendship. its happened to me before. its like living in the past everyday. don't be afraid to not contact her anymore, then i assure you both of your lives will be easier. on another note - i've had depression and the fluctuating moods and being very sad most of the time are hard to cope with, my mum will tell you!! i really hope this helps you. All the best Smyles xx
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2006-12-27 00:58:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is great that your ex is looking toward the future to a time when you two might be friends. It is sad when a relationship has to end sometimes, but it is great when the end can be amicable and the two people can value the good things about one another and parlay that into a good friendship.
2006-12-27 08:30:25 · answer #2 · answered by forbidden_planet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Look at 2007 as a year 4 new beginnings" what else can you do but more forward and don't look back. Best of luck.
2006-12-27 08:29:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants some time away from you, and that's just fine. If you take care of yourself, improve yourself, and not feel sorry for yourself or stalk her, she'll be happy to meet you again someday.
2006-12-27 08:54:26 · answer #4 · answered by Chris P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God bless
2006-12-27 08:28:49 · answer #5 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ...........
2006-12-27 08:25:37 · answer #6 · answered by *niki loves all god* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋