Me and my ex have had it bad, and we've got back together twice...
Okay, he actually ended on very bad terms as in: i told him somethin personal and then he told me to get the heck away from him n never call him again
Well, today being his birthday, i decided to call it quits: and just wish him... I DID NOT CAL HIM, I MESSAGED HIS FRIEND, n told the friend to wish him from my side, and he did, the guy said thanks
anyhow, I did it cause i was thinkin that since he does mean alot to me why not just message and wish him after ALL it is his birthday, and wishin him is the decent thing to do. I wanted to start 2007 on a fresh note after burryin all the grudges and provin to myself that i am capable of movin on with life
so i wished him!!
the question is: What now? What do u think will happen when i bump into him next at the local mall? how do u think he will react? did i do the right thing??
please answer nd advice, thanks
2006-12-27 00:20:57 · 7 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi gal. It is obvious that you still care about your ex. Thats okay. However, do not jump all over him the next time you bump into him. Give him some space. I am sure if he cares about you as much as you do, he will come around. The other option is to forget him and get on with your life.
2006-12-27 00:33:41 · answer #1 · answered by taarungi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you wished him a happy birthday without the intentions of getting him to think of you and call you then yes, you did the right thing. If you were hoping he would melt and call you and you would get back together then no you didn't.
Next time you see him just say Hi and keep walking. Being cordial is one thing...having a long drawn out conversation about it all is not the best thing to do.
2006-12-27 00:24:24 · answer #2 · answered by intewonfan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. You showed that you are mature enough to forget a grudge and that you were not affected by his breakups and make ups. He might however react that well, sure he may say a sarcastic thanks but don't woory, he'll get over it.
2006-12-27 00:26:18 · answer #3 · answered by LizziFishie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound very immature. Move on. Or go back. But make a decision.
2006-12-27 00:24:44 · answer #4 · answered by elgil 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you run into him at the mall literally..just say hey, how you doing..and continue on your way...quick pleasantry.....if you guys are across the hall from each other and eyes meet..just smile and wave...continue with shopping....
2006-12-27 00:30:43 · answer #5 · answered by sayasyoulike 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dear u did right thing but u must know that he doesn't love u anymore.so u must forget him like he forget u
2006-12-27 00:24:06 · answer #6 · answered by cat c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you did right so stop torturing yourself so much. next time you see him,stop to chat to show there's no hard feelings
2006-12-27 00:25:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋