I'm 14 years old, i have never been on a date before, nor been kissed. I sort of want to get it over with but I also don't want to rush it and regret it later.. My friend's brother asked me to go to the cinema tomorrow with him, and I've said yes, even though I don't even know what he looks like and what's he like....so it's a blind date. I don't know if this is smart for a first date ever? I'm very shy and aside from the fact that i have no idea what to talk about with him, do we have to kiss on a first date? And what should I do if he tries to kiss me? I don't want to hurt him but I don't want to do something I don't want to just because I'm expected to. Please, please, please help! Any advice is appreciated.
2006-12-27 00:16:21 · 11 answers · asked by siamesefish 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just go with the flow and do what ever comes naturally
2006-12-27 00:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The blind date could be fun, who knows? I would say it's not the easiest first date, but it might be alright.
As far as the kissing, easy move you'll master as you become older (haha I know lots of other girls who've seem to)
Just when you see him moving in to kiss you, turn your cheek and let him kiss you on the cheek. If he's a decent guy, he'll get the point. If he tries to force a kiss, kick him in the junk and walk out.
You are not expected to kiss on the first date, or the second, or any for that matter. Only kiss a guy when it feels right for you.
2006-12-27 08:20:26 · answer #2 · answered by Alberta Sunrise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have to kiss on a first date, if you don't want to. If he tries to move in like he is going to kiss you, simply step back a little and tell him you are not comfortable with kissing him. You seem to be a very smart young lady, and you should always stick to your beliefs. I bet you make your parents proud. Good luck on your date.
2006-12-27 08:23:40 · answer #3 · answered by In love with Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young lady, it is very impressive that you are concerned about this. As a parent of daughters, I would like to suggest that you be very careful, and talk to your parents about this first!! If it is a friend's brother, you are probably safe, but you want to be sure!!
As far as what to do if and when you go on the date - - NO ONE has to kiss anyone, ever!! YOU can decide whether that will happen, when the time comes. OR you can just make up your mind beforehand that it will NOT happen. YOU are in control of YOUR body and mind. Do not let anyone tell you differently! And please, please talk to your parents!! Let them help you.
2006-12-27 08:20:18 · answer #4 · answered by jkc19452004 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and go have fun, and you don't have to kiss him if you don't want to. and just be honest with him and say no. you don't want to make out. giving a small kiss at the end would be okay. but really thats all up to you to decide, and you are smart not wanting to rush into it. have fun and enjoy yourself.
2006-12-27 08:24:06 · answer #5 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do what is right for you.
If he trys to kiss you and you want him to thats fine but dont feel pressured into anything as it isnt worth it! The main thing you need to do is stop worrying and just be yourself.
2006-12-27 08:18:42 · answer #6 · answered by Tracey B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ive never been on a blind date: but i suggest u just act like urself, and aska few interestin conversations, u'll do fine
2006-12-27 08:28:47 · answer #7 · answered by Franky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should save ur first kiss for someone you like and know, not because you may may feel pressured into it
2006-12-27 08:21:25 · answer #8 · answered by Amy Lee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my first blind date was great, well until she ran into several glass windows and doors
2006-12-27 08:18:38 · answer #9 · answered by bama_cid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be ur self that is ur first date ...okay and kissing is not needed
2006-12-27 08:18:40 · answer #10 · answered by *niki loves all god* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋