and on top of that he doesn't have the balls to tell me,just plays along like my feelings for him aren't there.i'm really starting to hate men.
2006-12-26 23:37:30 · 11 answers · asked by debra 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Date women.
Kidding.
Men can be complete asses. That's a given. But to find your soulmate is prolly something worth going through all those asses.
2006-12-26 23:42:54 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Clarissa, first thing is, it sounds like you're talking about one guy, so don't group all of us into the same category, because I've been through the same thing with women.
This guy obviously doesn't want to be anymore than friends, and from his perspective, he doesn't understand why you don't get the point. Or maybe he doesn't know that you like him? Have you told him straight out? Take it from me, us guys can be pretty oblivious to signals that girls seem to think are obvious.
Sit him down and hit him point blank with it, and ask him if there can ever be anything more, or if you'll never be anymore than good friends (if you're alright with that). If he tries to change the subject, don't let him, tell him you want an answer. He'll eventually say what he thinks, and then you'll know.
2006-12-26 23:45:28 · answer #2 · answered by Alberta Sunrise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, Clarissa. It's not always going to be that way. Let me tell you something. Stop giving your feelings away so easily. Hold them to you like the precious commodity that they are. Let a man really earn them and even then he doesn't need to know all about them. Keep some things to yourself. Even after you're close you never ever need to tell him every single thing you're feeling. Keep some parts of yourself that are just for you. That way you'll never lose yourself or give away too much of yourself in a relationship. Keep your hobbies, keep your friends and never stop looking out for your well-being first. That's always the best move for you. That's not selfish. You can still love a man, but love yourself first. You'll find love, honey. Don't you worry.
2006-12-26 23:49:16 · answer #3 · answered by . 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have strong feelings for a holes
If you have strong feelings for a decent man he will at least have the decency to be flattered but tell you sorry no more than friends.
You could also be headfucked and not register that he's actually said this so now he's just rtying to piss you off to get riud of you 'cause he's triied everything else.
2006-12-26 23:44:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because as u said, they dont have the nerve u tell u up front
and that means u have not found mr.right yet
keep lookin u never know where u'll meet him
2006-12-26 23:45:25 · answer #5 · answered by Franky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmph, are you feeling it too ? i think it's the power that we give them when we make them know just how strongly we feeel about them. Im beginning to hate a particular one too ( i love him to death )
2006-12-26 23:44:24 · answer #6 · answered by auntymadness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont hate men... there are just some men who are not sure of there feelings
2006-12-26 23:53:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are some how stupid they don't know girl's feelings ,girl's are really emotional then men,but some men do ........
try to find those men who are really are loving and caring
2006-12-26 23:45:51 · answer #8 · answered by *niki loves all god* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all men are this way....you just haven't met your match...don't give up on men (unless you want to try women)...if you decide to ditch this one and later meet someone..take your time and get to know him better.....p.s. check to see if he has balls.....heehee
2006-12-26 23:57:39 · answer #9 · answered by sayasyoulike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't found the right one--they aren't all that way.
2006-12-26 23:41:45 · answer #10 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋