Advice on my x gf?
i was goin out with my ex for over a year, we broke up a month ago.. she has been ringin me and emailing me, txtin me alot lately, the other night she heard i was txtin another girl and she went crazy, and got really upset... so i talked to her and said that other girl dont mean anything,, she didnt beleive me but she does now... i told her i love her and i wud do anything to get her back, she broke up with me cause she was confused bout what she wanted.. she said the oter day she would think about gettin back together, then she said lets just see what happens, if its ment to be it will happen....she asked me to meet her last night for a drink i met her.. then we went to a club in the city, she kept flirting with me, kissin me on the cheek, and almost kissed me on the lips several times, held my hand, hugged into mr all night, does this seem like she might want me back, she just needs time? i want advice and your oppinions, i love her i wud love her in my life.
2006-12-26 23:31:10 · 6 answers · asked by Dan W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you both don't know how to handle a good relationship.
I'd say you should both take a break from each other. The fact that she keeps breaking up with you and then suddenly giving you mixed signals shows how much she can't handle a relationship.
2006-12-26 23:37:27 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you broke up, it means you need a break from each other. ask her if shes ready to be in a relationship again. if shes still unsure then avoid communicating with each other again until she has sort out her issues. there might be things that are pressuring her at this point. be sure to tell her you love her and will wait for her.
dont give in to her flirting - you might jump in another rocky relationship. just give it time. im sure that when she realizes she really wants you in her life she will go back to you. although set a time limit! you cant wait forever you know.
2006-12-26 23:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by rinkumi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What in the world is she confused about? Unless she's talkin to someone else she's straight up trippin man. If she's gettin pissed cause you're talkin to someone else and ya'll aren't dating, and wants to get all intimate with you like ya'll are dating...then why in the world isn't it just a relationship?
It's like she's waiting for some magic movie romance where you say all the right things, take control and make her yours or something. Or trying to see if that "we need space" crap is gonna work when it never does it just an excuse to go screw someone else and find something better because it ain't working there. Personally man, just gotta lay it to her straight....no GAMES...no TIME AND SPACE....if she wants you...then your hers....if not..then leave you the F*CK alone, because you have a heart, and it doesn't need to be TOYED with by her indesicion, ask her what she's looking for, ask her what she wants, but don't leave you in the open waiting for her to open up to you, and you have others who are more willing to offer their love without question...
In fact i've been in the same situation as you have, and i did exactly what i advised...she found someone else and i've found my soulmate, who like i said loved me without question....
My 2 cents.
2006-12-26 23:39:28 · answer #3 · answered by Dennis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should ask what she wants if she is holding back it,s not only because she,s confused she might be talking to someone else and it could be she don,t trust you enough may be she thinks u might break her heart its a steady process i think u should relax and let her come to u instead of being the one putting presure let her come to u and make sure u be nice to her and change something she dont like abt u just to proof to her u willing to change but dont make urself look desperate
2006-12-26 23:40:10 · answer #4 · answered by affh1st 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would give her alittle time-not alot. sometimes some women have this attitude "i don't want him no one else can have him" going one. so set a time limit for yourself and if the only time she starts to flirt with you is when your texting or emailing another women - brake it off or you'll only get hurt.
2006-12-26 23:38:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude this means that she wana get back so just make a move and if u want her then shes just a kiss away ;)
2006-12-26 23:35:13 · answer #6 · answered by nabs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋