I met him for ½ years ago. Like love in first sight, we both been attracted to each other. Like good friends, we talked with everything.
But we both have own gf/bf. In the same situation, I have been with my bf for 3 years, and he has been with his gf for 3 years. We both have house with our life partners.
From time to time, we found something different and special from each other, something like we want our own bf/gf to have, but they don’t. We like each other very much, but we are both afraid of the same thing. We could not decide to leave our own gf/bf yet. It is too big risk to take. What if we leave our own lives now behind and being together, but we do not work out after a while. Then we broke our friendship, plus we lost what we had now..incl. house, car..etc.
What should I do? Is what we have is love or just friendship plus even sexually attracted??
2006-12-26 23:22:28 · 11 answers · asked by Love cake:-) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you know what girlfriend....i was in the exact same boat as you.
I tried to deny my feelings and i tried to believe that my partner was the right and only person for me.
So i stopped contacting that friend and i tried making the best out of my relationship. But things failed eventually and somehow me and my friend's paths crossed again. It's like we fated for each other. And the funny thing is, both of us knew that our relationships with our own partners are heading to nowhere.
We let our hearts decide and we knew what we want. We ended our relationships with our partners.... settled our assets (it was a headache) and we got married in a year.
It's been 6 years since and he's the best gift God ever gave me.
You shouldnt worry abt what if the relationship doesnt work out. You have to let your heart decide what you sincerely want. Have faith because God have his ways and everything happens for a reason. Good luck dear!
2006-12-26 23:41:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Commitment is a funny thing, it does not necessarily mean that you have tried all the dishes at the feast and know that you now have the best on your plate.
But by having faith that even though there may be someone better in the future, you remain with your current partner because you are in love with them and are staying because you want to!
Anything can happen, bad and good, in a relationship but what is good for you is most important because if you are dissatisfied with your life it will ruin someone elses too!
2006-12-26 23:39:18 · answer #2 · answered by prairiegurrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lie partner isn't a boyfriend or girlfriend. and in the state of "boyfriend girlfriend" in the secular universe you can do whatever you want there is no commitment. Love isn't a feeling alone and sometimes love is committment without the feeling so if you are making a decision based on feelings and that tingling sensation in your pants alone? chances are it's lust.
2006-12-26 23:26:08 · answer #3 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To this person they are pointing out the actuality. What they sense as love isn't that deep. it particularly is the place the term shallow person comes from. which would be as much as they are able to loving every person. they'll harm, sense loss and soreness in the event that they lose the single they love, even regardless of the indisputable fact that it in basic terms isn't even on the fringe of what somebody who's able to deeply loving yet another feels and that they very very nearly constantly don't have faith that there are people who're diverse from themselves. in case you are the form of person who loves deeply and continues to be committed to that one specific person, this form is poison to you and to be prevented. the faster you the right thank you to perceive them early, male or woman, the extra constructive.
2016-12-15 08:58:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already know the answer to this, take all fear aside. material things should mean nothing. they come and go but true love lasts forever.
trust me you don't want to still be wondering in 10years from now you may never get the chance again. these feelings don't just go away.
2006-12-26 23:29:32 · answer #5 · answered by rosalyn d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that writing smaller than usual? How'd you do it? That cake looks delicious. I think you might just be lusting. However, you might not really love your wife/husband to be thinking this seriously about leaving.
2006-12-26 23:27:27 · answer #6 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that. Who are you most happy with, current bf or new friend? who could you see yourself growing old with?
2006-12-26 23:25:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its both... i say ditch ur old guy and go for him. its usually hard to be both sexually attracted and bf with a guy.
2006-12-26 23:28:04 · answer #8 · answered by LuLu<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think staying best friends instead is good for now.
2006-12-26 23:26:38 · answer #9 · answered by tagara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take this risk i think ur both in love
2006-12-26 23:37:42 · answer #10 · answered by shery11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋