Infidelity - the other woman...?

Question

What would you do if you had you B/F's other woman cornered alone in a room? hisssss meeeow!!

OK in response to the answer below...How if she was flirting and trying to get your BF's attentions? ;-)

Answer 1

i would have both of them cornered, then id bang their bloody heads together, kick them out, make a holy show of them (and admittedly prob of myself too)then get totally pissed and forget about them.

Answer 2

The answer is nothing. I've been the other guy as well as the one who's been cheated on, so first off, what goes around comes around in karma. There comes a point that you have to realize that you're boyfriend is to blame as well as the other person because both knew what they're getting into and what the consequences would be. Unfortunately you now face the realization that, even if your boyfriend says otherwise, that he is not happy with your relationship on some level. When I was cheated on I didn't care about the other dude, so I asked her what was the problem and she gave me her reason so we decided to end it. So talk to him and address his concerns and if it's something that you can't help him with then you should call it quits as well. Hope that helps.

Answer 3

Well, if I had the other GUY cornered in a room as my soon to be ex lady was cheating on me, I'd tell him to get a truck and to move all of her crap to his place as I don't want her anymore.

I'd also tell him, "Hey dude, she cheats. What makes you thin she won't cheat on you?"

In other words not a damn thing. It is far more likely to be your guy's fault (he knew he was cheating, she may not have known he was already spoken for) than the other person.

Back to your situation though I'd wish her well and then throw his cheating butt out the door.

That is unless you like being used by a guy who'll cheat on you again.

Answer 4

nicely, enable's see. you need to bash interior the fricking computing gadget firstly. then you extremely ought to employ your self a criminal specialist at his rate. Honey, he of course is dishonest on you and has no purpose of fixing his procedures. do not trust a unmarried element he says about "that's all harmless." it isn't harmless and he damn nicely knows it. Or if bashing interior the computing gadget is out of the question, you may favor to do somewhat some thing like what he's doing. go away some clues so he will locate out. possibly he will then be reminded that you're a eye-catching female besides and others see that. If he confronts you, tell him he of course expects you to be able to do the same element if he's doing it besides. No damage performed good? LOL you recognize, do unto others as you'll have them do unto you. If a criminal specialist is out of the question for now, i'd initiate putting aside somewhat money right here and there for secure practices. My wager is he has met a number of those women human beings, and ought to probably be dishonest on you at each chance. i'd definately question in the destiny at the same time as he tells you he's leaving. i'd decrease all sex until eventually you tell him to get some checks performed. it may confident humiliate him and make him ask your self at his deplorable habit. possibly somewhat humility is what he desires. sounds like an conceited *** to me. you want to do not ignore that you're of cost and under no circumstances lose your self-esteem which seems to me he's been attempting to rob you of. If it replaced into me, i'd %. all my stuff at the same time as he replaced into away and make confident he got here residing house to an empty residing house. that is a definate interest grabber. Or %. all of his stuff and get an order of eliminating from the courts. If he loves then you he will see the mistakes of his procedures and strive against to win you decrease back. yet i extremely do not trust there's a lot destiny on your courting. you'll under no circumstances believe him back, and deep down interior you, you're conscious this received't end. he's performed it beforehand, he's doing it back, and he will in destiny. With all chance of taking it one step extra. i'm so sorry you're going throught this, yet do not ignore that you're reliable, captivating, and worth. good success and God bless.

Answer 5

I'd ask for her address and a time she'd be home to collect his things from her lawn because that's where I'd toss them.
She can't have all the fun while you're doing all the dirty work.You need to politely inform her of all his bad habits and his demands and troubles that'll cost her in hurt feelings as well as money.Then stick to your end and go pack up his stuff and start tossing.

Answer 6

The "other woman" is not as guilty as he would be. You should employ the valuable services of your fingernails at him. In any relationship, there will be such "third party interventions" from time to time. Think of them as tests of strength and value. If one of you fails, it means that what you have no longer matters as much as it did. Whether or not any of you do something about this, is your decision alone. Be well, be loved, be happy !

Answer 7

I try not to get into catfights over a man, once it reaches that point is when i realise he's not the one, cause if he was then i wouldnt be in a situation like that.

Answer 8

I would run away because she was a big fat slag bag/bog monster. I am afraid of her because she is twice the size of me. But he was VERY drunk when he slept with her. He, on the other hand is like a twig, so I sorted his sorry **** out instead.

Answer 9

i wouldve answered differently if you said shes someone who is interested and flirting with your guy rather than your bf's 'other woman'
but in this case, i agree with the others that you should confront your bf and not her. it is kinda degrading if you lower yourself to the point of hurtin her physically or throwing insults.

Answer 10

Nothing. I would, however, be having a quick conversation with the BF using the words 'sorry' '***' 'over' 'can do and will do much better' and 'goodbye'. You are better than this love x