If there really are so many other fish in the sea, then waiting for an ex to return to you wouldn't be really practical, would it? What if it feels like your only option is to wait? Would it make a difference if you were in the wrong?
2006-12-26 23:02:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anita 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As soon as you are ready.
The second they are out of the door then you are free.
Take time to reinvent yourself first though. Get comfortable with the person you have become because relationships do change us in many ways. Learn to like yourself and what you are.
As for waiting for someone to come back. Why? Do you really want that? Can you make right the things that caused that person to leave? Would you like yourself if wou did or would you feel compromised? Having made that change, would he/she make it a stepping-stone to the next excuse to walk out?
Dont compromise yourself.
2006-12-26 23:12:46 · answer #1 · answered by philip_jones2003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow.
If you wait, it shows you relly cared for a person. If you wait for a very short time and then give up, it can appear that you weren't into them. If you wait and pine away, you're a fool.
Who broke it off with whom? If he broke it off with you, then he may just come back to a safety net. That means he won't stay with you for very long as he most likely be looking still.
Wait for a short period of time, say a month or two. If he does come back find out why. If his current flame kicks him to the curb , don't take him back as you'll be that safety net. If he comes back in a month or two on his own because he wanted to, then take him back.
IMO however, move on.
2006-12-27 07:11:15 · answer #2 · answered by Geo-Guy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can only move on when you feel ready. You need to ask is it likely ur ex will return? Why did you split up? and is it worth waiting, cos if you split up once what is gonna be different the next time? Only you can know when you should move on and that will be when your feelings tell you to.
2006-12-27 07:05:42 · answer #3 · answered by Rowan1964 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people get stuck on fault . it is her fault it is his fault. what difference does it really make. if you like rare fish then you can wait for ex while waiting for a new u feel. If someone who fits comes and gives a bit then you take for sure but if you not hungry then you wouldn't have you line cast anyways
2006-12-27 07:11:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to do, for each of us must figure out for ourselves, how long is long enough. If you feel you need to wait, wait a little longer. When you are ready to move on, don't look back, keep moving forward. Good Luck.
2006-12-27 07:07:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how deeply you feel for them....if the love is strong, something you know is not easy to shake off, then wait...perhaps love will bring you together. If not, then get out. It seems to me that love, like life, is always about taking chances...walking a rope blindfolded...It just depends on how much strength you have to hold on, or to move on...
2006-12-27 07:23:09 · answer #6 · answered by yugitony85 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋