Whats the best way to take revenge on a ex?

Question

Of course without Losing temper, throwing things - or blowing up property!!!! - come on , get cracking!!!

Answer 1

The best way is to let go. Once you can get over this 'I need revenge' thing, then you win, babe. The day when you can wlak past him/her without feeling that crushing animosity, but feel calm and content instead, you will feel such a rush of victory!

Answer 2

Not to take revenge at all... You living out your life successfully, accomplishing your goals, and being genuinely happy is all the revenge you need... For if you are living happily, someone you feel you need to take revenge upon will be the last thing on your mind so revenge wouldn't matter anymore... A lot of the time, someone who is, or was out to hurt you in any way will be effected the most when they see that they didn't destroy you at all... Live every second of your life for you and the people who are worth it in the end, not someone who isn't...

Answer 3

Get on with your own life, have fun & make a success of it. Don't contact them. The word will eventually filter through that you are doing just fine without them, and that you never needed them.

I have heard of people selling their ex's (or about to become an ex's) property at knock-down prices on e-bay, e.g. 50 English pounds for a very fancy sports car worth the best part of 100,000 English pounds. (This works best when the ex (or about to become ex) has put their property in your name for tax reasons. Otherwise, the long arm of the law could come after you.)

Answer 4

As I once saw as an advertisement for some kind of booze, but it is true, "Living well is the best revenge". If they left you for someone else, a good payback is to steal the new person they left you for from them by either seducing him/her or winning them as a better friend to you than to your ex. Also if your ex sees you with someone new, they may try to win you back. In any case, playing fair in how you take revenge leaves the door open for being on a friendly basis with your ex.

Answer 5

Remember the old law!
For every action there is an equal and opposite re-action.

Sometimes it can be lasting mental anguish.

My ex re-married shortly after. She had the s*** beat out of her and went through a bad divorce. I had left her financially set, even with all the vows that she had broken.
She called me to come back. I still think about it after 4 years. No way. All the trust is gone. I still think about it.

I have composed 4 songs, all dedicated to her, although she may never know. (The Ways I Love You), (Maybe Today), {"I'll forget you"}, (A Heart Breaks So Quietly), (Tears Lost in The Rain).
I have a music teacher who will do the arranging and record vocal and plans to use them in his band. He believes they have merit.
If she ever hears them, she will recognize the circumstances. No name involved.

You still care. If you didn't, you would only feel NOTHING.

Answer 6

The 'correct' answer is something like 'living well is the best revenge.'

On the other hand, I'm very fond of the story about the lady who, having been dumped in a very humiliating fashion by her boyfriend and still having the keys to his apartment, let herself in when she knew he would be away for a few days; then she sprayed all possible soft surfaces with water (carpets, curtains, pillows, chairs, etc.,) and then sprinkled them with mung bean seeds (you know - the ones you grow on a flannel to show the kids how wonderful and quick Mother Nature can be) ... so that when he came home - I'll leave you to imagine the rest of the story.

Answer 7

Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/6Rtoy

Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.

The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.

Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.

Answer 8

If your ex is keeping the house then put bits of fish inside the curtain poles in every room before you leave. After a few months your ex will be going nuts trying to find the smell!

Answer 9

Be happy. Be mature. Treat her with respect. Be nice to her. Nothing upsets a woman more than thinking "Did I make a mistake letting him go?" and to then not be able to get him back.

HOWEVER, the fact that you are asking this question, leads me to believe that you don't have the emotional maturity to actually pull this off for more than 10 minutes and, unfortunately, this will require more than 10 minutes to prove.

So, I guess you, as a vengeful human being, are just plain SOL.

Answer 10

Move on with your life. Let go of the animosity. Live a successful life. Find your true soul mate. Be a great example to others.

Nothing more will need to be said. Everyone will think that if someone left someone as good as you then they are the bad apple.