My marriage is on the rocks due to a 3rd party. I can't even convince my hubby she's ruining everything we've built for 13yrs. Any woman out there who's been the "other" woman?
2006-12-26 22:57:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Agree with the posters above; it is not the 3rd party that is hurting your family, it is your husband, who made a vow to you and broke it, that is hurting you family. He is the one that cheated and he is the one that destroyed your marriage and he obviously did not value what you have built or he would not have jeopordized everything by seeking to have his needs met outside the relationship, or he would have at least let you know he needs weren't being met and given you an opportunity to try to resolve the problem before turning to someone else.
2006-12-27 02:55:50 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put the blame squarely where it belongs... on your husband. No woman can get to a man who won't play, no woman. Your hubby has to be out there and the fact that he won't take your concerns seriously tells you he doesn't respect your place in his life. If a man wants to play, he will, no woman is holding a gun to his head, most women want a man and to some if you can't hold your man its not their problem, but eventually that player will leave them too for the next one, so she will get hers even if she gets yours right now.
But, if your man hadn't been the one to break his vows, you would n't be in this position right now. After all, his gf made no promises to your....your hubby did.
2006-12-27 08:11:07 · answer #2 · answered by justa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to be blunt but if your marriage is on the rocks its because of you and your husband not because of a third party. Be honest with yourself if your marriage was good no-one could come between you.
2006-12-27 07:08:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To what i see maybe problem come from both of your relationship. Why don't both sit down have a talk and treat each other like before married.
2006-12-27 08:41:16 · answer #4 · answered by tcp_jenny 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was the other woman.i didn't want or mean to be but i fell in love.i don't know how to answer you're question for you. i just know that everyone in this party ends up getting hurt.i'm sorry for your situation, but i know in mine i had no intentions of hurting anyone.
i thought that since i was not the one who was married i was not cheating.all i wanted was to be happy.
2006-12-27 08:20:25 · answer #5 · answered by daisy25 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No have never been the other woman. Your husband is the one to blame. Not her. Talk to him. Move on. He does not deserve you!
2006-12-27 08:21:23 · answer #6 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well..I've never been ther "other" woman but my view is that they have a loose moral.
2006-12-27 07:01:22 · answer #7 · answered by Ellie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋