My friend and I met 1 year ago, camping. We live 3 hours away from eachother, and we like eacother ALOT! We talk most days on MSN, or emails., or txt each other. Him and I have been wanting to be with eachother for quite some time now. I keep putting it off because we live so far away from eachother. Now he has a gf and we where planning on seeing eachother for New Years but he isn't coming down now because he knows something will happen between us and he doesn't want to betray his gf. I told him how i feel, he said he feels the same way and that he always has, but now theres another girl who he also loves, and she comes first. He said he would do anything for me, but its all just complicated. I don't know what to do!! Should I try and win him back? You would say flirt right? if so, how? i'd have to do it on msn or txt or email.. what would I say? something thats meaningful? if meaningful what? and flirty what would i say? and ideas??? please help me!!!!
2006-12-26 22:55:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just offer him sex. He'll *** to you. Good luck
2006-12-26 22:56:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no..
if all this goes wrong all 3 of you can be hurt. he doesnt exactly love you, you both are playing a dangerous game so its exciting. dont give him the chance to cheat on his gf- anyway if he can cheat on her (i know he hasnt exactly ryt now - but even saying to you that he likes u and alwez has is similar to cheating coz hes duin this behind his gfs back) ..wont he cheat on you also later?
dnt flirt wiv him, you need to calm down about this bloke. dnt try STEAL him from her, what goes around comes around.
what youre feeling is a CRUSH/ infatuation for him. it wont be worth the hassle if you take him. go find sum1 better. although he sounds gud in the sence that he wouldnt wanna hurt his GF. leave them alone n dnt get involved in him. tkrcz
2006-12-26 23:01:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, i just think leave it alone. I f he was really interested in you he'd do anything to be with you. Distance wouldn't matter and he wouldn't have a new girlfriend. sorry , this is not what you'd like to here but you deserve a guy who'll be there for you!! only want to be with you!! you sound pretty young, i know that it must really hurt you to know that he has a girlfriend now, but let it go and ask for 'your guy' to come into your life. you won't be sorry
2006-12-26 23:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by rosalyn d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he says he will do anything for you, ask him to break it off with his girlfriend. i mean, you just cant flirt with him until something happens. he must choose.
come on, be kinder and imagine if youre in the other girl's position. dont literally steal him. make it official so you wont have any guilt hovering over your happiness.
if he has always felt the same way for you, why didnt you have a relationship then? if its the distance factor, has it changed now? if it hasnt, then re-think it again. he said it himself, his girlfriend comes first.....
2006-12-26 23:07:05 · answer #4 · answered by rinkumi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should respect the fact that he doesn't want to betray his girlfriend. Its possible this relationship he has with her may not work out. If you continue to be friends with him its possible he may decide to leave this girl and be with you. He sounds like he's trying to make a tough decision about who to be with. be patient with him, let him know you'll always be his friend. If things don't work with his current girlfriend chances are he'll remember you as a good friend who cares about him and he will want to be with you.
Try to keep your conversation with him friendly don't flirt too much with him.
2006-12-26 23:03:30 · answer #5 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of bearing directly to your female pal you in basic terms could communicate over together with her and ask her whys shes appearing like that. I dont think of you like or have thoughts to your maximum suitable pal. you in basic terms sense that way mutually with happy to work out her by using fact your good friends, additionally seems she lives faraway from you or no longer interior attain, so its time-honored to sense overly happy to work out somebody you havent seen for a on an identical time as. You dont get jealous while she has a boyfriend so I dont think of theres something there, otherwise it could make you very harm to work out her with somebody else
2016-10-19 00:54:18 · answer #6 · answered by merkel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best to back off, until things happen between him and the girlfriend, before you have any ideas swimming in your head. stop and think about the situation. is it right? or is it wrong? if he has respect for your friend, he will tell her in time. so just let it go for now. if you let it go, it may just come back to you.
2006-12-26 22:59:08 · answer #7 · answered by fillie324 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirting's a bit moot at this point, don't you think?
he's the one with the girlfriend, so the burden rests on him to be honest with both her and you. kudos for your honesty and not cheating on her. but this guy has to be faithful in mind, too, and if he ultimately chooses her over you, you have to respect that.
2006-12-26 23:00:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you fell for the okky doke and you lost of course everyone does who falls for it but why are you still trying to get him when he already will doink you again and you will be getting played for nothing.again. why
2006-12-26 23:02:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till one dumps the other makes sense
2006-12-26 23:00:05 · answer #10 · answered by Joe L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋