I really like my friend. Should I tell him?

Question

I really, really like one of best friends. But... should I tell him? He's a great friend, and I wouldn't want to loose him as a friend if he doesn't like me the same way. Everyone says that he likes me, but he says he "like a girl that doesn't go to our school" and I might be switching schools in a couple months. What should I do?! I'm so confused!!!!

Answer 1

Absolutely go for it!!!!!! Ever heard, "nothing ventured, nothing gained?" If he truely is a great friend, and he doesn't like you that way, your friendship will survive. However, if you don't act and he moves on, you will always wonder if he was that one great love. I have many moments in my past when I didn't act and the moment got away from me. I spent a lot of years regretting those missed moments. Don't let the great moments of your life pass you by. Hey I think there's a song in there somewhere.

Answer 2

Girl I have got the same situation. I have known this dude for ever, litterally I've known him since I was born. We are the best of friends but I am starting to like him.

Don't tell him a thang. If he really does like you he will make his move sooner or later, just be patient honey. You don't wanna lose a great friend if he don't like you back.

Hope this helps!

Answer 3

Tell him you'd like to know him more than just a friend. If he doesn't want to go any farther than just being friends he should still like you. If he doesn't then something's wrong with him. Tell him your true feelings, even if he doesn't feel the same way, if he's a nice guy he will still like you.

Answer 4

i'm in this kinda situation too. but if you are really courageous enough,maybe you should tell him. but will you be courageous to bear the consequences thereafter if he doesnt like you the same way? can you handle it if it ruins your friendship?
switching schools might not be the answer that he'll give you the answer you desire.
answer these questions and youmight not be so confused afterall.
GOODLUCK!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

If he is your good friend then you wouldn't loose him.But take more time to express your emotion for him.Or some how U may let him inform that you are week at him.You may seek help to do so from other friend.But u must be technical.

Answer 6

Dont tell him just yet because he has feelings for another girl n if u tell him how u feel u are gonna feel sad n hurt if he tells u that he doesnt like u he likes another girl,so just wait untill he stops having feelings for the other girl

Answer 7

hey girl, we have the rite to speak out our feelings. rejection will do you both gd and bad. of cos if he rejects, u will b sad but u also will learn a good lesson frm it. afterall ure still young and there will be many other guys out there for u.

you shld speak out for ur feelings. perhaps take each step at a time slowly, dont rush into things or it may backfire =)

gd luck girl! all the best!

Answer 8

Just try to tell him in a way that is not so agressive so that he doesn't feel pressured by you. He could be fibbing to you so that you won't know it is you he likes. Also men can like more than one woman at a time.

Answer 9

I personally think that friends don't really bloom well into lovers. To me, I think enemies bloom into lovers best. But since you're transferring and may lose contact with him, you could try asking if you're really that confused.

Answer 10

Tell him... what could it hurt? If he really is a good guy, he'll still be your friend even with the akwardness of you liking him.