How to get over this break up: I loved this guy and everything was perfect. We were faithful to each other. But recently we started arguing a lot so he ended our relationship. I still love that guy and I've been crying a lot since he left. He, on the other hand, is well off. He's flirting with other girls and he doesn't give a damn about me. We've spent great times together. But how he forgot them? How he forgot me so easily? It's been only 3 weeks and he hasn't even contact me. Does that mean he didn't care about me or really loved me? We've never argued before. Please help me forget him!
2006-12-26 21:25:29 · 18 answers · asked by r33 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HI dear!!!
u know what see to the brighter side of it at least u come to know before that he dont care for u think if it would have happened after u got married then what would have u done.........
See whatever happens is always for our well being so just cheer up now just think he never loved u, there was no one in your life, and just live life happily cause life is beautiful
Trust god have faith on god everything will be fine...
good luck
2006-12-26 22:08:52 · answer #1 · answered by pearly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darlin, Things seem great at first, and if it was true love for him, he would have not forgot about you so easily, or he would have fought for the realationship to mend, and if he can move on so easily, sorry to break your heart but he did not really love you, that was just some co out, that alot of guiys these says seem to use! Make dinner dates with your girl freinds, or go to the mall and shop, that always gets your mind off things, and maybe you and some of your girlfreinds can hit the dance club, and maybe you could meet a nicer guy who actually accepts you for who you are not just some girl!!
Good luck......
2006-12-27 05:32:54 · answer #2 · answered by tuffchevy86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that´s a tough one and Xmas doesn't help! you can't get over a break-up after only 3 weeks. Lately I've been trying to help two very good friends of mine to get over the same thing, but without success. I think that what people say about time being the best healer, a cliche I know, but is true. additionally try not to stay at home all the time but to go out with your friends and have fun. I know that this will get him out of your mind only for 2-3 hours, but it's a step forward! I hope you will feel better soon!
2006-12-27 05:35:25 · answer #3 · answered by Alexia L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let confusion creep up between u n ur guy due to ego( if it is there ), just do two things ..
first, simply tell him what you feel n ask for his serious n clear cut view over the whole matter.
Second, if asnwer breaks ur heart remember one thing such diversions of life can make u more strong if u have the ability to divert such negative force into positive one, I personally feel that sorrow is just a call to wake up and remember GOD n hidden truths of life. at last i would say, just believe in God n remember every turn of life is designed by God so that must be for ur goodness...... Good luck
2006-12-27 07:42:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wonder what your agruments were about.So bad they split u up.sounds like a controlling bastard to if he can just go off and start flirting around so soon.Its hard to forget someone u truely love no matter what the arguments were about.Im in a similar position 2 u.U just have to be ready to forget him and only u will know when the time is right.Even if u were to out with yor friends to clubs and stuff i bet u would still be thinking about him.I do the same.no matter were i go.
2006-12-27 05:31:43 · answer #5 · answered by jafsil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and spend lots of time with your friends, be with someone like a friend in the day, and keep yourself busy.. start working out and listen to good women empowering songs,ex: I will survive. Dress cute do your hair nice go to the mall and shop and you will notice the guys trust me there are tons of guys out there looking for someone.. I hope everything works out for the best for YOU..stay strong because you need time now to find out what makes you happy!
2006-12-27 05:38:16 · answer #6 · answered by abella_03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is how guys are. When you break up they go searching for another girl so, they can get over you fast. I think its a real EGO thing. To get over him go out have fun. Go out on tons of dates and if you guys are destined to be together youll find away but, do the same thing hes doing.
2006-12-27 05:30:05 · answer #7 · answered by lithdailums7@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey u just better concentrate on ur future my small advice in most love its beiing a 1side true love in some love girls r cheating in some love boys r cheating nowadays the love is getting week so plz forget him it was so hard but u have too this is my small advice marry the person who was mentioned by ur parents and my lost advice forget him he didnt love u truly i am advicing as ur brother(younger).
2006-12-27 08:09:42 · answer #8 · answered by vijay v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should know that luv means only luv there is no place for fight .there r fights, arguments between lovers but thats just the part of luv.if due to such arguments if he is avoiding u then he is not loveable just forget him think he never came in your life
2006-12-27 06:29:19 · answer #9 · answered by poo_tycoon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey if ur love is tru he will surely come back and if he doesnt turn up then its his fate to loose a person like u so gear up and be normal for ur life ....dont waste ur time in thinking about all those things
2006-12-27 06:15:07 · answer #10 · answered by shiva k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋