I've been having parties, and this one girl I didn't know well suddenly wanted to get with me at the party, and basically she's mine now. alot happened at the party, you know what I mean. man, she's real swet but kinda wild in some ways. anyway, I haven't been with a gril for quite a long time, and now I'm out of high school, but she is a senior, andright now we are on christmas break, we couldn't see each other during christmas time, but I'm gonna see her more. we talk on the phone but I can't find to say much, but she'll talk to me about anything and enjoy it, we can talk for hours. I just don't know what to say. basically we haven't said we are going out but everyone at the party were wondering if we were-- she was coming onto me really fast so I didn't know what to think, but she returns my calls, I thought she wouldn't and what happened at the party was going to be it.
2006-12-26 21:24:03 · 4 answers · asked by l u m i n o u s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't how to meet, or how to spend my time with her. like what is there to do. I can't bring her to my house, and her house isn't a place we can be alone either, I don't know how to give her a good time, or what to do, because I don't really know her right now.
2006-12-26 21:25:10 · update #1
she hella likes me, but I don't know how to take this relationship further. i don't know what to do other than walk around and ****, you know what I mean
2006-12-26 21:27:10 · update #2
lol its funny we've been "intimate" right off the bat, but I still worry about this **** and I don't want to be distant like I usually am.
2006-12-26 21:30:59 · update #3
I talked to her for a couple hours last night but this night I didn't call her. tomorrow me and my friends are having another party, so that'll be the next time I'll see her, since saturday (the first party), first time we've been seeing each other.
I don't want her to think I'm not interested or that I"m some dud or something. I don't know whether to ask her out or not, or when would be the time to, when we were together it's like were going out anyway.
2006-12-26 21:56:45 · update #4
My advice... Give it time. be open And yourself. i know that sounds corny & all but it's the truth. does she know you feel that way about her. because you both need to know what you both want.
And if you can't find something to talk about ask her something. anything. what's her fav colour? all time fave song? if she could be anything for a day what would it be? all this things will, little by little, get you to get to know her.
Good luck mate!
2006-12-26 21:33:34 · answer #1 · answered by stevieglenwright 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all breath and relax. Second no need to rush sex or anything of that matter. Just be her close friend. Cuddle hug and kiss if that's what's needed and talk be there for her. That's what she needs and well when the time calls for it buy her those special gifts that every girl likes. Give her your attention and time and be romantic with it. Time will tell. Don't rush it tho.
2006-12-26 21:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm I understand ya playboy well as I see not having a place to just chill is always a downfall. Do you both have friends yall can go hang out with? also take her to the mall,take her out to eat, Take her to the park, flirt with her, ask her about her classes in school, what she wanna do after she gets out, what are her future plans, what ever comes to mind just say it.
2006-12-26 21:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take your time and get to know her...do things together...go to a movie, get something to eat...go for a walk....talk about everything that you think about....anything that is important to you...see where it goes....good luck
2006-12-26 21:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋