I M 27 YRS OLD GIRL,BUT LOOK ONLY 22-23 OLD GIRL.I M WORKING GRADUATE GIRL. IN MY OFFICE ONE OF MY COLLEGUE WHO IS VERY YOUNGER TO ME ABOUT
20 YRS OLD BECOME MY FRIEND.I AM RESERVED IN
NATURE ,NEVER TALK TOO MUCH WITH BOYS BUT
THIS GUY (XYZ) IS QUITE ATTRACTIVE AND CUTE
BCOM MY FRIEND AS WE KNOW EACH OTHER .
I LOVE HIS INNOCENCE TALKS.THE GUY BELONGS
TO PUNJAB .WHN HE WENT TO HIS HOMETOWN I
GOT FEVER HE CALLED FROM THERE EVERYDAY
FOR ASKING MY HEALTH. SOON WE BOTH KNEW
THAT WE R IN LOVE .ON OUR 1 DATE, I STRAITFORWARD
TOLD HIM "I AM INTERESTTING IN MARRYING YOU.
I LOVE YOU AND LIKE TO SPEND MY WHOLE LIFE WITH
YOU."1ST HE REPLIED HE IS NOT READY TO MARRY.
THN HE SAID U'LL HVE TO LEAVE JOB.AND SO ON.
I AGREED WITH HIM AND READY TO ADJUST AS HE WANTS.
BUT AGAIN HE TALKED THAT WE LOVE EACH OTHER BUT WE CAN'T MARRY.WE QUERELLED ON THIS TOPIC SEVERAL TIMES AS THIS IS MY FIRST LOVE & I CAN DO ANYTHING BEYOND MY LIMITATIONS FOR HIS LOVE
AND COURTSHIP.
OUR
2006-12-26 21:12:09 · 21 answers · asked by priya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I hve not been talking to him since 15 days,he himself congratuted me on xmas morning through sms but i didnt reply as i am only waiting for his "yes".i dont know how 2 make him understand that i need him for da whole life. may be i proposed him 1st thats why he behaves like that, may be he is testing whether i marry some1 else or wanna see what i should do to tempt him so he agrees 2 marry me. Is every guy behaves like that,whn a grl proposed him.plz tell according to male instinct ,what he is having in his mind and what i should do as a grl.
2006-12-26 21:21:55 · update #1
do the right thing only
2006-12-26 21:17:03 · answer #1 · answered by evening_dewpoint 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He needs to be grow up girl?!...he just only 20 and for that stage of life it is cleary seen that he is not matured enough if ever he will commit himself to you. You must know that marriage life is not easy as you thinked, even though you could surely sure that you are ready to face whatever your decisions will be and you can be a responsible wife and a mother to your children but we are talking about his feelings so it's hard to conclude what is really on his mind, maybe he needs a lot of time to think about it, just dont be so hurry baby, let him think him not just him but you as well. Make sure that you will never find regret once you get married if you insist him right now. He might be having a good plan for both of you in the future and will much be prepared for that day to come.
2006-12-26 22:43:05 · answer #2 · answered by Ms.G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly - how can anyone know its true love on the first date ? You need to get to know each other better first. Secondly - most men of 20 are not ready for marriage. It seems like you want different things out of your relationship and unless you come to some agreement and meet in the middle the relationship is never going to work and you need to get out now, while you still have a drop of sanity left. You sound desparate and that is the quickest way to drive a man away !
2006-12-26 21:24:26 · answer #3 · answered by Tequila Sheila SA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not going to marry you and you are not going to marry him. You just have an attraction. You have a age difference of 7 years I am sure he is aware of that. He may like you and also might want to flirt with you but this cannot be a wise decision to marry.
Find somebody who is of your age or who is older then you.
Men would like his wife to look young even if he has dentures.
You will also spoil your working efficiency by doing love in office time. Looking to the list of your questions on yahoo it seems you need serious help contact in case you need some counselling to nischai_org@yahoo.co.in
2006-12-29 07:08:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man are funny at time they want to be the first at everything, you didn't said how long you been with him, but that don't matter. When you in love you in love . First of all you should not waited 15 day to talk with him call every few day let him know that you are there and being for real and talk try not to fight with him. Sometimes they need more time than we do, give him time but set a time limit. and hope that in time he comes around . Good luck and i keep my fingers cross
2006-12-28 02:14:36 · answer #5 · answered by tenderleafa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly your age does not match with his...secondaly i believe that love is blind so trust your feelings for him..but being rude and straight forward i request you to leave that boy.what i believe is that a boy should be older to u because then only he can understand ur needs.his immature nature may look cute for sometime only then u will be desiring of a person who is sincere and quite mature to fullfill ur desires.i must like to tell u not to force u or put boundations on u that "marry the person who loves you not to whom u love"..if he is rolling his talks like that then being harsh try avoiding him..may be he has relation to someone else thats y he is ignoring u..plz being a girl dont lie down...be strong,gather ur confidence and ask him straight forward .if he is also ready to adjust and support u then only devote ur self oerwise ur relation may turn really horrib;le...
just make for sure u r a good talented girl choose a boy that respects ur wishes and is ready to fullfill ur dreams...all the best dear..
"dont marry the person whom u can live with,,,,
marry the person whom u cannot live without"
2006-12-26 21:29:58 · answer #6 · answered by tanu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you know your different with the other girls, usually it's the guy that asks girls to marry them, anyway i guess the world is changing and so do we, Ok! First of all i think your guy is just trying to say that you should take it slow and take more time to know each other, i'm sure he likes you but he just needs time, and as for you i have to say your going too fast,
Here's what you do try giving him time, and let him feel your love burning(hehe), Goodluck hope you be happy........
2006-12-26 21:23:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u mad u want marry a boy younger than u. Just think 100 times and take decision, it is not good to both of u.
2006-12-27 23:40:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What i suggest frommy experience is dont love.. it will lead yo into a life of sorrow and cry.. enjoy when you are a free bird. The cage of love will hurt you a lot
2006-12-26 21:27:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is younger than you!!!remember this!!you will be forty he will be 32, think deeply!!!!before taking your decision...
seems to me you r taking the decisions and he has to be on your order, you asked him for marriage, this is too strange!!males should ask for it before females!!make him feel he is a man
i think he is still a kid, males in their early twenties are still not too mature to take decisions!!you like him that way because he seems too Chicky & inocent!!this is not a reason!!seems to me you need a puppet to play with not a man to depend on!!
take your time and think deeply!!
2006-12-26 21:26:56 · answer #10 · answered by donia f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just 20 years think about it. it is not love but only physical attraction of his age. u will be in trouble after some years . so stay away
2006-12-26 21:22:02 · answer #11 · answered by nil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋