I have a boyfriend in real life and I really like him. We have been together for half a year now. But just recently I met someone on and online game, runescape. I am truly in love with this guy and I could talk to him all night. We just have this connection I can't explain. This guy is amazing. I still love my real boyfriend so much, but I don't know how he would feel about this online boyfriend of mine. I don't want my real boyfriend to find out and dump me and I can't bear to leave either of them, so what the heck do I do!?
2006-12-26 21:08:20 · 17 answers · asked by Bordering Suicide 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really really like this online guy, I cannot let him go. I'm certain he's not lying and we are going to meet in a few months because he lived in my city. I really can't dump this guy but I still love my real boyfriend. I do not know what to do at all!!
2006-12-26 21:18:14 · update #1
The online boyfriend knows I have a boyfriend and I know he has a girlfriend. Would you consider this cheating??
2006-12-26 22:00:41 · update #2
go to your real life boyfriend trust me i know what you feel and dump the online boyfriend
2006-12-26 21:18:09 · answer #1 · answered by Hiba A 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Keep dating your offline boyfriend. If you really like the guy online and he really likes you then tell him to 'hang on' for you for a while. Let him be a back up plan in case your offline boyfriend breaks up with you. I don't know what to say. Well the guy that you like online can not be your boyfriend unless you guys have met and dated in real life. So irregardless of your feelings for him, he can not be anything more than a friend. That is what you tell your offline boyfriend if he ever should find out. I don't know. Well, be upfront with at least one of the guys and see what they say. Tell the whole truth and mention the other guy.
2006-12-26 21:42:11 · answer #2 · answered by TheSilverBeetles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah this is seen cheating. this is like going on a date which comprise your boyfriend and sending sexual textual content messages to 3 dude at the same time as you're interior the bathing room. this could nicely be a sprint little bit of a similar ingredient. ingredient is, there's a definite sort of courting you have with somebody once you date them, and once you crave it from yet another individual you're telling the 1st individual (for that reason, your boyfriend) that he's no longer good adequate. i could provide up talking to the web boyfriend in the previous you lose each and every thing.
2016-11-23 19:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy you met online doesn't know you in reality and neither do you. Your real boyfriend is well for real! So, girl you are your best judge. Runescape is just a game but your life is for real. I think you got it.
2006-12-26 21:15:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't toy with fire and you won't get burned. What if your real life guy found out? In his shoes I'd dump you in a heart beat and not look back. You're only hurting yourself and him. Loose the online fantasy guy and stick with the real one. You'd hate it if your bf did this to you so why do it to him or do you girls assume us guys have no feelings?
2006-12-26 21:24:39 · answer #5 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion sweety you are disloyal to your real life boyfriend.He thinks you love him and behind his back you develope relations with an other man.Does the on line person know you have a boy friend?If yes he is the same shameless as you are.If not you're pulling both their legs.
Either way you don't actually love and apreciate your real life bfriend.
Grow up and stop playing with peoples hearts and emotions,they are'nt toys.I can understand you're mixed up but
decide now who you want!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-26 21:39:39 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the real bf and find a way to hook up with the Runescape boyfriend.
2006-12-26 21:15:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
the online relationship thrive largely based on the anonymity and the ignorance that comes from not knowing physically what you hear from or talk to. ......remember you are a step higher with your live boy just because all your five senses, and yah sixth sense are tuned to and appreciate him in whatever form. online you only see what he wants you to see and nothing else.......so keep hat on the Friend Tip and you should be fine. no harm in doing that.
2006-12-26 21:16:27 · answer #8 · answered by onukpa 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'll get thumbs down for this but it has to be said:
You shouldn't do anything. You seem to like window shopping for boyfriends by dating one, finding a connection with another, so you might as well keep going with it. Find a 3rd, or a 4th, or 5th, until your satisfied with one that actually holds your attention long enough for you to stick around and be faithful.
2006-12-26 21:13:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
the online guy is merely a fantasy...he's probably some 60 year old getting off while he tells you everything you want to hear.....stick with the real thing....
2006-12-26 21:10:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋