I am with this guy now for 7 years, he's a really good guy and I don't wanna ever let him go. But Im so,so much in love with his brother.I see him and it's like the world is gone there is onley me and him there. he is with someone for like 8 years. He's not leaven her eather..We are like the same in everyway. we can feel it when we think of oneanother when we are apart. If we are ever mad at oneanother.when we see eachother its like all is forgotten, just love felings.we know what eachother is thinking. I've called my man his brothers name without thinking and he's done the same with his girl. We made love 5 times. and It was so different like i can't explain.. me & him. gotta be soul mate's,we just gotta be. there is so much d'javoo between us. I know we were ment to be. we are soul mates.....
2006-12-26 20:50:16 · 13 answers · asked by Lea, 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You are living a lie! it is your true feeling that matter most,you will never be happy with brother one.......best you go with your heart....
2006-12-26 20:54:57 · answer #1 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong. The best thing you can do abt it is sought it out. Take a decision now. Whatever you are doing right now is called cheating. You are in love with someone else and you think you are soul mate, then go for it. No matter what, everyone will be hurt. The sooner, the better.
2006-12-26 21:01:32 · answer #2 · answered by Saphire 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U both are damaging ur own personality/ U can not go like this/ U hve to choose one / In ur case love n lust r going together/ Do u think its good? Be ur own judge/ Till such time u all three r young u can deceive urself but after isolation for all of u. Keep friendly footing . No :S: with either of them. Just friendship/ thats the only remedy. Dont be sensitive n sentimental. Ignore if i am wrong/ May be i am but this is my true openion. Rest upto ur judgement. R
2006-12-26 21:01:05 · answer #3 · answered by raashi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are truly in love with your boyfriends brother, let your boyfriend go. You are cheating on him and It's wrong. Ask out your boyfriends brother and I am almost positive if this connection you speak of is really there then he will say yes, even if he has a girlfriend. He should leave her too if you are really that in love. Tell your boyfriend the truth and let him go, then if his brother says no to you at least it is better than cheating.
Hope this helps!
2006-12-26 20:59:17 · answer #4 · answered by Bordering Suicide 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u two r soul mates then why dont u get together. U r cheating ur bf with his own brother!!!! Do u have any idea what will happen if ur bf and his gf find it out? Pls stop this cruel game and decide what u want bfore u hurt two innocent ppl.
2006-12-26 21:01:09 · answer #5 · answered by mermaid 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow - I think you need to be very careful. This could get very ugly. You might even get one of these brothers killed in some sort of crime of passion. Five times cheating with your husband's brother is crazy and dangerous. Is this the only man that you are cheating with? Better get control of yourself before you mess up everything. Forget about this brother. Go out and get some other guys to cheat with. You might find someone else that will help you take your mind off of this one. I don't necessarily recommend cheating but if you're gonna do it - at least do it with someone that's not related to your husband. Maybe you should talk with your husband about swapping - at least you will be up front and honest about it and avoid some of the ugly stuff that is surely coming if you continue.
2006-12-26 21:00:22 · answer #6 · answered by gaijinojiisan 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-23 19:15:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"He is with someone for like 8 years. He's not leaving her either."
Forgive my coarseness: You may be in love. You may be willing to leave your boyfriend. However, he is not interesting in leaving his chick. As a matter of fact, he is just fine with getting a piece of you azz and going back home to get a piece of hers afterward. Life is good for a player! And it is the icing on the cake that he can screw his brother's chick! Oh yeah!
2006-12-26 21:07:51 · answer #8 · answered by tbonz 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you love him so much then why not take the risk and go for him as a boy friend? If you love him like you say you do and feeling are mutual then you shouldn't hide because your afraid, life is nothing but risks and if you don't take them your not living life.
2006-12-26 20:54:25 · answer #9 · answered by Skazz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you two are truly in love, then you should both get honest, and break up with your partners, and get together. What you two are doing is not fair to the other people involved here. Come clean so you two can be together.
2006-12-26 23:12:19 · answer #10 · answered by bostonchick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, that is wrong. seven years is a huge chunk of your partner's life that he is spending in the illusion that you love him. when he finds out that your actually in love with his brother, he'll he devastated. but if what you say is true, that your partner is in love with his brother's girlfriend, then maybe you should talk to the girlfriend and see how she feels about your man, and have your man talk to his brother to see how he feels about you. maybe in the end, everything will turn out okay.
2006-12-26 20:55:11 · answer #11 · answered by ohyes_itsbekah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋