This one guy that I like knows that I usually hangout with my crew. When he's around he would always see us together. In other words, he tries to get along with my crew. I don't know if he knows that I like him thats why he's using my friends to torture me. How? He would always try get my attention and after he has gotten it. He would ignore me and talk to my girlfriends. He gives my friends very nice comments and tends to ignore me. Although I know I'm better in whatever he comments them about. I wonder if he's using my crew against me so I can standout obviously in a scene in which I'm unaccepted. (like odd one out ) He talks nicely with me privately but when my crew comes around and joins in the conversation. He walks away from me. what is his needs of torturing me?
2006-12-26 20:44:50 · 6 answers · asked by Caitlynn L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is in love with you. He wants your full attention and affection as well as understanding . You should see him as frequently as possible and also give a him smile. He will certainly come to you and will love you. He is not jealous. he is your lover.
2006-12-26 21:00:45 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your crew? Well, I guess since you're "better" than your crew you're the captain or something, whatever. Jeez, you have your own ship and you ask us commoners questions? I feel so special!! But seriously...I think you're nuts. A guy compliments you, and then compliments your friends. I don't know any guys who are stupid enough to try and pick up "a crews" worth of women in one move. He's either low on the brain cells or something I call, "a friend". See, there's these people who are nice to you and spend time with you. Since he's not picking up your friends or trying anything, he doesn't sound to have intentions, it just sounds like you're insecure and need to grow up ...But now that you mention it, in addition to purposefully torturing you, I bet he's plotting turning the good people of yahoo! answers against you, world domination and puppy kicking too! You should keep an eye on him...
2006-12-26 21:05:27 · answer #2 · answered by That Guy! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, He is some kinda player, And jelouse, you will only get jealous if you let your self get jealous, like you said you obviously know you are better then what he has to say to all your girlfreinds, so don't let it bother you, and go about your business. If he tends to get mad about it, let it go. And the whole thing about him being nice to you when you guys are alone, and a jerk when every one else is around, is just plain immature, and he obviously has some insecurity issues with himself and about what others think of him. if you like him let him know, when you guys are alone, but whatever you do, don't let him play the head games with you, because he will be the one having the laugh at the end of it all! And you will be the one left hurt.
Good Luck
2006-12-26 20:57:16 · answer #3 · answered by tuffchevy86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree to dipi
This person is playing with you, but I am not sure about his Intentions. But before you start feeling any thing for him, just clear the Intentions.
But you just wanna give him a lesson do the same with him, you are better than many girls as you you said you will easily find the attention. So just try this and see the result.
Best of Luck
2006-12-26 21:08:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a player,he is playing about with you.He is not in love with you,the target here in a player is to acheive its goal,it sounds he wants to have a good time with you,which you would not be interetsed in ,well many females wouldn't as well.
Well go tit for tat,do the same what he does talk to his friends and ignore him and talk to him good privately little and sweet and thats it,play the same game and make him think.
2006-12-26 20:49:49 · answer #5 · answered by Dipi s 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have your own crew you must be rich, he just wants you for your money.
2006-12-26 20:51:54 · answer #6 · answered by sorcergeek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋