we have been together for a while now and she is a very pretty girl she just got this damn mushstashe that buggs the hell out of me. She is light skin so it shows up like a becon. sometimes when we kiss I kinda gringe inside because its just ughh. Sometimes I am even embaresed to be seen in public with her because of what people will say. I mean its just stressing that lil fuzzy **** on her upper lip. We've been having issues lately between us too and she is really sensitive even though she tries to hide that. I thought about persuading her to go to a spa and and get a body wax or what ever and they take that sh!t off her lip. How much is the spa usually? is it expensive for them to take it off? I mean I don't want her to notice I'm sending her for only that though. Plus will that Sh!t come back and if so when? and is there some cream the spa can use to permently take it off or what? O I hope she cuts it!!!
2006-12-26 20:41:25 · 18 answers · asked by Chris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LOL i cant stop laughing sorry...I cant even think of a good line you could give her...Try the waxing route...
2006-12-26 21:25:34 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
its just a couple of dollars to get it off. she doesnt have to go to the spa for that! any drug store will sell the wax to remove it.
girls have three options to have a smooth upper lip:
1. tweeze (which is very quick)
2. wax it off (which is a bit painful, but it stays smoother for longer)
3.threading (a new invention found in India which reduces the hair growth-but only a few ppl knw how to use it)
personally, it is totally gross for a girl not to have a smooth upper lip. i feel sorry for you. the only way to do this the right way, without her getting angry, is for you to suggest to one of her close FEMALE mates that she wax or thread her upper lip. im sure she'l get the message...if not, she has missed out on a vital piece of personal hygiene information.
......im not sure why she hasn;t noticed the hair on her face.
2006-12-26 20:47:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if there is anythng about your appearance she would like to see different, and let her know that you too had a pet peeve, and say that you are beautiful the way you are..and what would enhance you beauty even more if she had a clear lip free of hair." Chris you may have to wax your chest if she waxes her lip so be prepared, and offer that suggestion if you have a hairy chest or other hairy body part.. compromise.
2006-12-30 02:49:08 · answer #3 · answered by sexymama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will it come back?! lol its just like the fuzz on your lip. it will come back just slower than it would for you.
If you know any of her friends well you could say something to one of them, say that you didnt want to hurt your girlfriends feelings but you've noticed people making comments (that sounds nicer than you cringing) friends can bring those things up easier.
if you dont really know her friends try to bring it up gently when shes in a good mood and downplay it a lot like youve just noticed it and its not a big deal. bleaching it is probably the best idea it takes a long time to show back up and its cheap and can be done at home.
2006-12-26 20:45:42 · answer #4 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know!! Leave this web page running at her place so when she walks past the computer she might take a look and then she sees your question! hahaha ok maybe not that'd probably be world war III. I don't have any hair on my upper lip but my boy sometimes likes to tease me when we're in our silly playful mood and he touches my upper lip and says "oh my gosh you have a moe!!" Thats when I run to the bathroom...of course he is only teasing but it does make me run and check...you see even when guys tease us girls we'll secretly check for ourselves and we'll be thinking "hmm is he actually hinting something?" and then we get rid of it ASAP...remember we sensitive girls believe that "to every joke there's a hidden meaning..."
Hope this helps...
2006-12-26 21:36:14 · answer #5 · answered by Miss A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chris , my man, DO NOT tell her face to face!!!
She will hate you and then your negatives will come bursting out her mouth with a fiery vengeance. All you can do is stare in shock at how fast her mouth and ronni are moving.
Treat her and 2 friends a day at the spa, casually tell the one who your closest with to to remind her of that.
It will cost you abit, but you do love her right?
2006-12-26 20:55:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey ... it happens I have been the girl on that end of it ( I'm a Hispanic chick with real light skin....) so i know it sucks.Just be open and nice about it. ASK HER. thats how my SO did it. I get embarrassed but i accept it. If she cant deal with a lil constructive criticism she's being a bit juvenile IMHO
2006-12-26 21:01:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
PROBLEM: You never want a woman to start messing with facial hair. If she get's it waxed once, it will grow in thicker. It's part of her genetics. She can't get rid of it. She can only bleach it, but the hair will grow back -- with bristly stubble.
AND THEN YOU'LL BE KISSIN' MAGNUM P.I. OR BORAT.
Just ask her if there's a way she can lighten it.
2006-12-26 20:55:20 · answer #8 · answered by L. F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hair on face and particularly upper lips of girl friend are most unromatic and most hated as hair interfer in kissing and making true love. You should ask her that you do not like his face and particularly her luips only due to hair on uppr lips,. I hope she will reciprocate and will see some hair specialist to get such hair removed from her face. You said that she cuts such hair . It is not r ecommened as such cutting of hair from the face of ladies is also not liked by men. You must ask her clearly that if she want s to have relationship with you,she must get rid of such unwantd hair from her face.
2006-12-26 20:50:50 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she dun wan to shave it off and maybe she noticed that u dun like the hair on ur upper lips is becos i heard people say... the mushtashe will grow thicker and rougher everytime it grows out after shaving... so to prevent situation get wrost she dun dare to shave it. but pulling it off, the hair will not grow thicker and rougher but its very painful (for girls, they cant stand it) and the pores may expend and girls care about the face very much becos they take face for us (the guys) and she thinks that the best choice is to leave it as it is better than the situiation get wrose... if u really love her, no matter how much hair she has on her body u will still love her right? so dun care wad others say...
2006-12-26 20:53:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she cuts it, waxed it or creamed it ,it will come back sooner or later i have the same problem , i have been saving for years to get mind removed forever ,but the after treatments are what cost the most , ask her about it, if she don't want to get rid of it then there is nothing you can do but leave her , if she wants to get rid of it then help her but ask first , you don't really know what her self image is .
2006-12-26 20:49:18 · answer #11 · answered by angela h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋