(for women only) what are things you want your man to do for you, in public and private????/?

Question

please explain thouroughly, my girlfriend says she feels im unappreciated and i wanna know what would she really want, so what would you want?

Answer 1

I would like to be remembered always. When we are in public, I love when my husband remembers to ask me if I want something to eat or drink, or take part in certain activity, sit with me for sometime, make sure that I am part of the group while chatting, so that I don't feel lonely and left out and make sure that we have at least some time together, alone. In private too, I love to be appreciated for anything and everything that he likes about me, even if it's in the plainest of words, such as nice food and hear him say "I love you", "I want you so much", "I am lucky to have you in my life", just listen to my nonsense sometimes and tell about his day to me, again and again. It just strengthens our love and bons us even more.

Answer 2

In Public always hold her hand when ever possible. Hug her, put your arm around her. Kiss her is public if she likes PDAs. In private kiss her everywhere, make her feel like everybody part is so important to you. Take getting to that moment very slowly. She probably feels unappreciated because you probably rush things and leave her hanging. Making out is very important and should be done 15minutes before getting to the foreplay. You want to get her excited and wanting to take things to the next level. Take undressing her slowly. When yous are both naked and staring at each other ready for each other surprise her and don't rush, Start making out with her again. Try to be unpredictable. I promise you she will appreciate it. After yous are done with your business. Or if you are done and she's not (which is common for guys) please her in another way. Leaving her hanging is a d*ck move on so many guys parts. DON"T DO THAT. But if yous both finished then don't get up and leave right away. Kiss her more and just "cuddle" for like 5min. Even if you hate it, it will show her you cared enough to let what just happened sink in for the both of yous. And always be vocal with her in public and in private. Hope this helps good luck

Answer 3

A relationship takes a lot of work, but the benefits are great. For me these are things that make me feel appreciated.

Home: If I cook dinner, my bf does the dishes. It shows he is willing to pick up some of the slack. Just offer to help every once in a while so she doesn't feel the full weight. Sometimes he brings me my favorite candybar or a card to let me know he was thinking of me when he was out. Before unloading your days complaints, ask her how her day was and listen. Don't give advise about it or suggestions unless she asks or she will think you think she can't handle them on her own. Set a routine date for every two weeks, or week, with just the two of you. It gives you something to look forward to and plan as a couple, keeping you both involved. Run a bath and light some candles. Tell her to go take an hour to relax because you know how much stress she has.

Public: Holding hands is a good start. Make her feel a part of every conversation so she is not just standing there as an outcast. Make eye contact with her. My bf and I have a signal that no one else knows for when we want attention. It always makes me laugh when I'm deep in conversation and he is desperately signaling me that he wants my attention. It makes me feel important to him and it is something special we share together.

Hope this helps, good luck.

Answer 4

We want you to pay attention to us in public. No butt watching, in front of your girl. BECAUSE, if you caught her LUMP watching, you'd flip. Same thing. Women have egos too.

Anticipate needs in public and private. If you see she's driving a 'Hoop De Ville" hoopty car, full of rust and mechanical problems, offer to take her car to the shop or at least an oil change.

Keep the compliments coming.Especially on those moody days.

And learn when to SHUT UP. Especially during those moody days. It will save you so much grief in the end.

Answer 5

I agree with Diane S on this one. I want to feel like you enjoy being with me both pub and pub. In private, do things that are thoughtful and nice. Little things make SO much more of a difference than big things.

Answer 6

It's nice when men don't treat you different in public than they do in private. It just reassures her that you aren't ashamed, embarassed, or using her. Of course, that doesn't include sexual acts xD but I don't really understand what's going on with you two.

Answer 7

In public I love it when my husband acknowledges me in conversation with our friends, like in "Cynthia was just telling me that....blah blah blah" or when he teases me in a loving way. I like the bond that no one else can transverse. In private I like the fact that we can talk about anything and that we know each other's habits and little picadilloes and that we are totally comfortable and happy with each other after 37+ years. I like it that he sometimes comes up behind me and kisses me on the neck when I'm on the computer. I'm pretty easy to please (and old lol)

Answer 8

Im Private I want what i want in public and to be treated like a cherished queen. I want to feel appreciated and valued.

In Public I want to be treated as a valued equal and shown the respect that I deserve.

Answer 9

Public:
Hold hands.
Take me in his arms.
Whisper in my ears.
Treat me like a lady.

Private:
Kiss me day and night.
Hug me all the time.
Massage my feet.
Massage my back.
Cook with me.
Get silly and playful.

Answer 10

In public* holding hands, open her car door, sounds old-fashioned but I like it....... Maybe let her put a finger in your back pocket while walking, put your arm around her,.......... At home* rub her feet, scratch her back, comb her hair, play with her hair, kiss her gently, look in her eyes and tell her how much she means to you, take your time in the bedroom (Al Bundys not wanted ) when done , hold her.........