Im only nineteen, so i can't go out clubbing, and im not in college.
My question is where would be an ideal spot to meet a man? Im very shy, so I don't really initiate conversations. I have very low self esteem, and have always had problems meeting people. I just moved so i don't have any friends in the area. I just don't know what to do, i am so lonley...
2006-12-26 20:18:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
19 and can't go clubbing? geez you got it tough over there.
here in Australia you can go clubbing when you turn 18. But thqat doesn't help you.
Ok. If you're Christian, go to a few churches and look for church dances and the like. You'll find other people there not just religious nuts. Even just go to church services. Lots of people go there to pick up.
If you're Jewish go to Shule and talk to people and you're bound to find Israeli dancing groups etc. and a lot of people your age don't go to shule(synagogue) to pray, they go to pick up.
If you're Moslem, ask your mum or dad to set you up a marriage and pray for a kindhearted match.
If you're irreligious, pick a denomination and attend their prayer services.
Take up tenpin bowling.
Take up Bogun Bingo. (Oh yeh that's banned)
Dwarf tossing?
Motor racing.
Observed section trials! that's good clean fun. look it up on the net and it's one motorsport that girls actually seem to get into.
If you're in Australia, go to the beach, walk into the lifesaving club on the weekend and yell out "where do I join?"
(you don't actually need to be fit) a lifesaving club w oh yeh that's right you're not. ummmmmm
Try some of the above and good luck.
Oh yeah. and think happy thoughts so you're smiling. Guys love a nice smile.
( it's actually subconciously programmed into us)
2006-12-26 20:34:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are indeed, shy! 19 yrs old, is pretty self-searching period!!! Studies and future. You are not alone, on this. There are a lot of people like you in similar situation. But One thing you must not do is to feel low self esteem!! At 19, you have every reason to be proud of your good self, full of hopes and very confidant as you can be whatever you want to be, provided you take the right direction.
Consentrate on your future, first, and, at the same time, join a local group of your interests. Mingle with your peers, and no doubt, you will find someone whom you share a lot of common interests and with whom you can develope healthy relationship.
You do not have to be lonely, at all. Join yahoo messenger for internet CHAT, but be careful there too. There you can develope chatting skills, but do not reveal much about yourself, nor about your address. Just, remain on that level of chat. No more involvement. Read books, go to local liberary, gym etc., etc. You will soon discover how many people are EAGER to be friended with YOU! Make that your new year resolution! All the best, swseety!
2006-12-27 04:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well look for shy guys or try to change... low self esteem is a problem.
2006-12-27 04:23:56 · answer #3 · answered by Top_secret 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with a car at a bus stop.
2006-12-27 04:21:44 · answer #4 · answered by bri n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys are everywhere!!!!! first choose one and then just ask him sth! tell him that he is very interesting.... and then he'll tell you ..... let's go somewhere the two of us.....xi xi
2006-12-27 04:24:36 · answer #5 · answered by bladlave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
email me ur picture and i will let u know exactly wat u are looking for :) and where to find him :)
2006-12-27 04:21:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋