2006-12-26 20:12:01 · 19 answers · asked by wilddjontheloose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You will never forget about some you've fallen in love with....ecspecially if you are close...but time heal pain...and help you find love again.
2006-12-26 20:16:09 · answer #1 · answered by 317537 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The quick answer is that you don't. Your relationships are a part of what make you 'you'. When a relationship is broken, whether by death or because the person leaves you can't just shrug you shoulders and pretend it never happened. It will be painful and it is alright to feel sad and angry but you also have to get on with your own life. You do it one day at a time and when you feel overwhelmed you find something to do that helps. Change your life a little so that every thing you do isn't the same as when you were with that person. Try voluntary work, nothing gets you mind off your own worries like seeing some one else is worse off. Do something that will help you make new friends. Go on a holiday that will get you to mix, one that isn't all couples. You will never forget but the memories will become easier to live with.
2006-12-26 20:23:55 · answer #2 · answered by happyjumpyfrog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time heals all wounds. Just give it time. nothing you can do will make you forget and honestly you do not want to forget the feelings which come with being loved. Trying to run away by jumping into a new relationship or drinking are the wrong way of approching the problem as that just delays dealing with it. It helps to spend some time alone and just cry if it makes you feel better. It isn't a bad idea to take extra time to devote to your hobbies as that will take your mind off things but try and stay busy. You will have to deal with it but you don't have to deal with it all-at-once or all-right-now. Naturally as time goes on, your moments will become memories which will shape your future. There will always be a scar as you'll never forget but never stop moving forward.
2006-12-26 20:19:27 · answer #3 · answered by chameleon_.geo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a question that I find myself trying to answer all the time. I am sorry to say that I don't have a true answer that will make you feel better. I continue to bring up my on experience. I lost someone because the circumstances were not right. But each day I think of her. Your heart will never let you forget. If the loss is through death or separation you still must grieve and move on. I just can't take my own advice. Good Luck
2006-12-26 20:19:18 · answer #4 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can never forget about her... sadly ( and happily) it is stuck in u unless u like get hit in the head with a boulder. However, you can either move on or try to get her back. If u really love her u will think of something and try your best to get it back. If u want to move on, find another caring girl to love just as much if not more.
2006-12-26 20:17:22 · answer #5 · answered by david edwards 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say whether you want to forget due to break-up or death....either way, you never forget that kind of love, and you don't want to, memories are good and experiences make you who you are....the pain gets better over time and alot of tears, I could say don't dwell on it, put you will anyway..singing your favorite songs, watching your favorite movies and wondering constantly what the h--- happened...when you are finished grieving, you will go back out there and risk love again, and you should.
2006-12-26 20:19:22 · answer #6 · answered by klouise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't forget about them, you LET THEM GO! no matter how long you have known them, or how well you loved them! And you move on with your own life! Build a good quality of life with yourself! It's like being married to an alcoholic; and you choose to stay with them. You learn to have a life for yourself with or without them. Sometimes they get sober, and sometimes they don't; again, it comes down to YOU! The ball is in your court! You are responsible for your self, not them, but YOU!
2006-12-26 20:18:37 · answer #7 · answered by Ikeg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the benefit of her being pretty crappy so I focus on that, and with that and the help of friends I get through the day. But..forget...I don't think you'll ever forget, the volume of your feelings will just get turned down in time. Hang in there!!
2006-12-26 20:16:09 · answer #8 · answered by Che G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't do it. What I did was, I pray for comfort from the Lord, then I made myself believe that he was just far from me and no means of communication. And because I love him very much, I learned to accept that if you really love somebody, you don't need to be reciprocated and so, I jus go on with my life. And because I know the fact that he will not come back anymore, I always pray for courage and strenght from the Lord.
2006-12-26 20:27:35 · answer #9 · answered by Gem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't, but you can move on.
definitely not easily, but for now you need to make yourself as busy as possible so you have no time to sit around and cry and think about him.
so start helping out in the community or hanging out with friends, read a book.. anything. talking to someone will help the most.
good luck
2006-12-26 20:15:28 · answer #10 · answered by shoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋