I need to get away i can't deal with all the pain anymore i need to escape and to disappear. does anyone have any suggestions on a safe place in australia for a single person to just get off this world for a while? I need to escape the pain and all the people in my life right now. please help
2006-12-26
19:55:12
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some problems are not solvable. don't you think i already have tried this is a last resort i just need to disappear. i want to vanish.
2006-12-26
20:01:25 ·
update #1
I know the need to run really well, and actually running in strange states and cities i don't know, just looking for somewhere to get away from everyone. I don't know Australia, but i am sure there are places that you can go to, and get away from everyone. Sometimes you really need that space, cause sometimes things just get so overwheming, that you need to get away from everyone. So i really truely hope that someone can help you with at place to go over there.
Have a Happy Hoilday
2006-12-26 20:05:29
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answered by Ladyofathousandfaces 4
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I know just how you feel...like you could get on a train and ride away to no where...and never go back...but it just isn't something that can transpire ,sometimes...and the only thing that ever kept me grounded, is that I have to thank the Lord that I am healthy, and then try to see about getting some money together to change the invironment I am in....sometimes saving the money is the only thing you can do, and then search the internet or make some friends in an area you think you might want to move to..I pray that you will find peace, it is a horrible feeling when you feel there is nothing more to stay around for...
2006-12-26 20:13:52
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answered by MotherKittyKat 7
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You will never "solve" this problem that you have.I've answered one of your previous questions and answering this one too cause I was just interested in what has happened to you ever since, but I won't keep answering your questions don't worry, just this one.
You will not make her feel better.She is sucking the life out of you and is ruining her own as well.I know that she probably has serious family problems so now she is the victim in the eye of the world and in her own eyes.
You must turn your back on her.
That's the only thing that can help her, you are the obstacle to her facing her problems!
Being suicidal:never actually sucseeding at it but always using it for blackmailing others is dishonest behaviour and one can get too accostumed to doing and might go on for a life time.(the one I'm talking about had her parents threatening each other with suicide like they were asking for a cup of coffe, guess who she learnd from, and by the way they are all alive)
I'm sorry but the world is full of mysery!
Do you know that many of the African "charity" actions are doing more bad than good?Give them agricultural products when the local farmers are getting ready for harvest=local farmers go bankrupt rich european can buy their land plus more beggars are created waiting for cargo.This is just an example of bad charity.
In my nation there is saying:"the road to Hell is paved with goodwill"
You have to let go no matter what your surrounding tells you or how they will stigmatise you or what your friend will tell them about you! It will be hard, but your life and your friend's life is at stake!
Of course you can also kill yourself and give your friend one more thing to whine about and make her guilty and you can also become a drug addict the scum of society but who are you helping with that?
By destroying yourself you will just add to the mysery of the World.
Love is not only hugging and kissing it also means that sometimes you have to be able to let go!
Like a good mother that lets her growing children develop their independent life by standing aside and not interferring too much.
Even God lets us be by ourselves for our own good and doesn't pull us on strings or whisper into our ears like some baptists would say.He gave us conscience and logic to be able to make our own decisions and become strong.
Be brave!
It will take long to recover but you will never walk into the same trap again and your friend might stand on her own feet eventually, it's up to her.It will take years for her maybe.
Help in situations where your help is really helping.Even simple things like helping an old lady with her luggage, helping someone at gardening whatever..where you see that you didn't do it for nothing and bring a smile to another person's face that will make you feel better.Even an encouriging smile to a newcomer in class can be 1000 times more beneficial to that person than what you've been wasting your time with lately.
And it's probably a good idea to get away a little bit.
Sports!Social activity with people that you barely know, have fun meet new people go hiking or get a scholarship to study abroad.
I'm really sorry for you, you have a good heart that's being broken.
Someday you will enjoy life again!
2006-12-27 02:55:47
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answered by amateurgrower 3
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If I were in a situation like that, I would go to the Salvation Army for help. Any church would help you, but I know the Salvo's are really kind and will help anyone. If not, tell a trusted Doctor how you are feeling. You will be amazed how much they can help. Best wishes for a brighter future.
2006-12-26 20:03:34
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answered by Anonymous
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I've felt like that before and moved to Europe. I backpacked around AND got a real job too with a United Nations Organisation (IAEA). I was gone for 7 years and had some really amazing adventures. In order to do this you will need a bit of money in your backpocket. You may need to store your things - and you may lose them if you're gone so long. I did. Ah, **** happens. It's about what your priorities and interests are. Good Luck and Happy Trails.
2006-12-26 22:19:36
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answered by namanselma 1
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Email me.
I may be able to help..take care.
2006-12-26 19:57:27
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answered by PomOnTour 3
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wow. dude, you need help. maybe instead of running away, you should face your problems.
2006-12-26 19:57:27
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answered by Anonymous
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you should find a way towards people, not from people
2006-12-26 19:57:40
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answered by Anonymous
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a garden or a psychiatrist
2006-12-26 20:12:54
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answered by really cool person 2
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