Two brothers with a problem?

Question

I have these two friends who are brother's by marriage, and they both really like one another, but don't know how to tell their parents. Niether of the parent's know that their son's are gay and their not sure if it's even okay since their related by marriage. Is it wrong? Should they tell their parents?

Answer 1

ooooh very curly one this one.
VERY curly indeed!
So many problems!
first they're poofs.
second they're brothers.
third their parents don't know.
hmmm one problem at a time
first. and third.They should probably break it to their parents that they are homosexual. Probably one at a time with a couple of months in between.
second. well the only troubles with screwing your siblings are
a.if there are offspring they have a very limited gene pool but this won't happen here,
or
b. if you believe in God and we already know his opinion on homosexual males (only men have defined a problem with Lesbians, not God. Look it up if you don't believe me.)
So as they will be angering God by any any sexual relations anyway where's the problem with them being brothers?
If they love each other but don't want to have physical relations with each other then there is nothing sinful about it and it is to be cherished and is God given love (even though the rabbis, priests and Mullahs will stone me for saying so. God gives love and guidelines as to proper physical behaviour for those in love. [i.e. a man should not lie with another man as he does with a woman, see your priest or rabbi for the exact reference.] He does not prohibit true, Platonic, love!)
Thirdly. Just make sure you have a cardiac unit on standby for when you tell your parents!



Sorry guys but from my standpoint this is all just a really gross and disgusting situation, but I hope you find the above info helpful.
(and I know that falling in love is not something you choose. I fell in love with a 17 yr old. I am just VERY glad that I have no lustful feelings for her.)

Answer 2

I don't even know what to say here...I guess it's not incest since they are only related by marriage,but its still pretty weird!I'm sure their parents are not going to handle it well at all.I think they should wait to tell them until they are sure that they want to be together and until they both feel comfortable telling the family.And if their parents have a good marriage they should be able to get each other through this,but it could also cause them problems they could play the blame game...I think only the boys could figure this one out,w/ any advice they get I'm sure there's going to be a down side..it's a really messed up situation!

Answer 3

I had a friend in this situation, except it was two girls. It depends on how old they are when their parents got married, as to how grossly it will be viewed. If they are adults, then go for it. They should only tell their parents if they are serious about each other, or want it to be long term. If they are underage, then the situation is much more difficult, and would best be judged knowing the parents. Would they get into a lot of trouble? Would they be allowed to stay in the same household? Would this break their parents up? overall, a very difficult situation. best of luck to them

Answer 4

this is between the 2 guys. it's really non of our business what 2 concentinting adults do.
when and if they want to share this with their parents they will.
IF their parents don't already know.
Funny that guys think that mom's and dad's are the last to know that thier son's r gay. WE know!
we just want them to be happy, brother or son.
mine is brother. this step brother thing i'm assuming
is only a moral issue-- if they were sheesh-
how long have they been brothers?
and who are we to judge?
perhaps it's a fling, and experiement?
perhaps it's true love and god bless them for whatever happens
and may they just be happy
aren't we all god's children and brother's and sister's in one right or another?

they are not related by blood.
and they cannot procreate, so in that area, no moral delimia!
wrong to who?
problem to who?

their parents will figure it out.
they don't need to tell, and neither do you!

Answer 5

The brothers have a situation not a problem. These brothers are step-brothers. It probably would be helpful to some extent if the parents knew. I do not judge people by their sexual preference. It makes no difference to me. It is not wrong and their sexual preference is not a problem unless you see it that way.

By the way, I am a heterosexual male.

Answer 6

You gotta be $#@%^&* me! An apology in writing! For What! The Bro is amazingly immature and needs to advance UP! truthful apologies interior a relatives are no longer good sufficient? If the be conscious isn't good sufficient between blood, then how good is any paper meant to be. This relatives desires help previous what i've got faith all and sundry in this board has to furnish. needless to say no guy or perhaps Alpha Male in this relatives unit. between the brothers needs to step up.

Answer 7

OH MY GOD!!well i suppose the big question is do they consider each other brothers?if their parents,friends n family consider them brothers then there might be a few people who struggle with the news if they decide to break it to them.

Answer 8

its wrong to be gay by marriage

Answer 9

I BE HONEST THE WORD AND ACTION AFEND ME BUT AS A PERSON I HAVE TO SAY WHAT GOD SAYS LOVE THY NEIBOR AS YOU WOULD LOVE THYSELF. BUT THE ACTIONS BEWEEN THESE TWO BROTHERS ARE UNGODLY IF YOU WOULD LOOK IN THE HOLY BIBLE LEVITICUS 18 :22 MY ADVICE TO YOU IF YOU BELIRVE IN GOD YOU CAN ANSWER THAT QUESTION YOURSELF BUT DO NOT DO IT IT WILL GET YOU HURT SO WHAT I AM ASKING YOU IS TO WRITE DOWN BOOK , CHAPER AND VERSE. TELL THEM IF THEY HAVE QUESTIONS REFER TO NEAREST PREACHER.

Answer 10

i have no idea what to tell you ?