EVEN IF YOU ARE MARRIED?
2006-12-26 18:04:44 · 30 answers · asked by Godb4me 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
This is not me but my husband who did this! How would you feel?
2006-12-26 20:03:47 · update #1
Eve thought that there is nothing wrong to gaze at the forbidden fruit. later she was tempted to eat it and you know till now we are paying the bill.
2006-12-26 18:09:04 · answer #1 · answered by itsme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you think, you are. If you continue a on line romance and do the phone thing you will at some point break down and go all the way. Even if you do not, it will damage your marriage by rendering a true relationship to be compared to a fantasy. The worst part is, that after a while you start to truly believe that the fantasy, or I should say the on line relationship, would be better than the real one you are in. But it never works that way, after you have ruined your marriage you then find out that at the best the one you ruined it for is no better than the one you were in. And at worst you end up being hurt both physical and mental. Please stop before its too late.
2006-12-27 02:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by saintrose 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Eventually the relationship has to go in some direction. That being either lovers or friends. Freindship wise its great. But if you become pure lovers then eventually there's going to be a need for more and certain sacrifices will need to be made and that can be hard but in weighing out the pros and cons, hopefully the choice that is eventually made in the end is worth all the sacrifices and all the future that each possess.
Involving the added difficulty of one being married, then no its not ok. I know all that goes into the breaking of a marriage and a family because my parents are divorced. Cheating in my personal opinion is not only wrong, but disrespectful and selfish cause you don't consider who it is that your hurting. On an outside view, cheating can be a difficult and stressful course in itself. This i know from what my dad has told me when we were able to have a civilized discission about his wrong doings.
~Jamie~
2006-12-27 02:18:42 · answer #3 · answered by curlygirl55555 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is wrong, you must not commit adolitry is part of the Ten commandments, and Jesus said if you look upon another women with lust in your heart you have commited adolitry. Stop being a sleezbag and wake up to yourself, because one day you are goiing to get caught out and i hope you do. You are a pervert. How would you feel if your wife was doing the same thing?
2006-12-27 02:24:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Um, not really. And I wouldn't call it a romance if you're just talking on the internet and on the phone. And if you're looking for romance in place other than your marriage, you need to tell your spouse.
2006-12-27 02:07:44 · answer #5 · answered by countrygirl81886 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it isnt okay. You're turning to another man for reasons that you should be turning to your husband.
Now if this man lived near you would it evolve to more than a phone call? Most people's cheating is limited to their options.
2006-12-27 02:08:10 · answer #6 · answered by Darktania 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, its not ok. If you're married have a romance with your husband.
2006-12-27 02:08:46 · answer #7 · answered by tracy211968 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No its not okay.
What happened to honesty in marriage?
Besides, why do you want to bring sadness and turmoil into your life by playing double with the husband.
Hmm rather think of it this way, would it be OK if he did the same?
2006-12-27 02:05:50 · answer #8 · answered by Antares 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
No. Because you're still emotionally cheating. Cheating is wrong is wrong is wrong, no matter which way you figure it. And thats not from a religious perspective, thats from an emotional and safety perspective.
Just don't betray. If you betray, your word means nothing.
2006-12-27 02:07:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
No and you are disgusting for thinking this. You should be ashamed of yourself. You just proved what I've always thought - women who cheat are the most callous and selfish people alive. Do your husband a favor and divorce him - he doesn't deserve this treatment.
2006-12-27 02:07:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋