my mom, dad and I take care of my elderly grandma a lot. we go over to her apartment, clean it, do dishes, make sure she takes her meds, brings her out and to the drs, stores, etc. But noone else in my fam seems to help her with the exception of one uncle. The rest of the fam ignores her and doesnt want to be bothered bc they are too busy or w/e. This really upsets me because i know she wont be around a lot longer and they cant see that bc they are so stuck on themselves. my mom got in a huge fight with one uncle and they hardly talk. so its just us 3 who take care of gramma. its not that i dont mind taking care of her its just that i feel so angry at the rest of the fam for ignoring her. they visit her like once a month. they brought her a big present for xmas eve and had a nice dinner at her place and didnt invite us over to celebrate. the next day, on christmas day, mom and i go over to grams to pick her up, and had to clean up their mess even tho it was spotless the nite before.
2006-12-26
17:35:06
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babybear
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So i ran out of room lol
Im asking u guys what to do about the situation. Should we just keep living our lives takin care of gram or fight back and tell them whats on our minds.
2006-12-26
17:40:06 ·
update #1