am i not attractive?......anymore?

Question

well. back in middle school i was liked by the "hot girls" and in highshcool which are now the most attractive girls in the school. ive hooked up with a few girls my freshman year that 90% of guys would find quite good looking or "hot", but now i havent been able to find a girl, and now that i have fallen for a girl that liked me in middle school, and to find out she doesnt have interest in me anymore. and now when i look at my self i think im ugly, like i feel that im look at myself and dont see a attractice young man anymore. did like grow up uglier, like what the heck is oging on?

PS: i do still "take care of myself" i dress nicely, have a personailty all girls love. and i haev good higene.

the girl i like said she LOVES my personality

PS, PS: i havent dated a girl "from my town" since 6th grade... so thats not it

Answer 1

Sound like people are putting too much stock in other peoples appearence. If you take care of yourself, dress well, and are a nice person, then you should be golden. Maybe they are looking for someone with the James Bond charm, which is so rediculous but people do act like they are gods gift ot man, and often they get the girl. Kind of sad really.

Answer 2

It's wonderful to have those school memories of the way you were back in the day...a ladies man from what you describe with a pretty smooth style...but that was back then, now you are more mature, more confident, determined, and well adjusted...it could be that you are in a stage in your life where you are ready to settle down and feel a bit slighted that the one you feel you love, doesn't love you back so now you are wondering what happened to you? Redirect that focus to what you have accomplished, what you plan to accomplish, and how proud you are of all that you have completed that has been positive for you? These are questions that should be reaffirmations of what you have become...Yes, it's great to remember those glory days, but don't get lost in time...you are in the present...2007 Resolutions are on the way...time to think of what yours will be...Enjoy and be Safe...(smiles)

P.S. Try renting the movie, "John Tucker Must Die" "Lake House" and "The Stepford Wives"...each of them possess a message, but do see for yourself and enjoy. (smiles)

Answer 3

Dude. Don't have a low self esteem and say that you are ugly. Maybe the girls in middle school liked you alot, but then you didn't like get with them so they moved on. And the girls in highschool don't know what they want a lot of the times, so they are just flippy floppy. A whole bunch of girls probaly like you but they just don't know how to ask you out, or maybe they a secretly checking you out when you turn your back. I dunno. Maybe the "right one" hasn't came along yet or something.

Answer 4

If by 'hooking up' you mean went out with I don't see what you have a problem with. If by 'hooking up' you mean slept with or something of the sort, some people will see you as a man-whore. If the second option doesn't apply to you, don't worry. We all go through dry periods of admiration of the opposite sex.

Answer 5

First of all, how are we to know what you look like? Secondly, maybe this girl knows now that you've been around the block and are focused on looks and thats why she lost interest.

Answer 6

dont sweat it shes playing hard to get..and so is every girl

and mabey if youve dated alot of girls..the girls mabey know that your not one to keep a steady relationship..

Answer 7

Please stop thinking about yourself...im sure there's a girl out there for ya! you just gotta look around!
good luck!

Answer 8

..... geez dude!...... if yuh flunk out on one,...... move on to a different one......... mama mia!.... pass the cornflake's!....

Answer 9

it's not just about being attractive, you have to have the right personality duh!!!