what can you do when u are in love, only 13, and parents in your way.?

Question

I love this boy but cant tell him what do i do i know parents are going to be like u r 2 young and only 13 but they have been in luv 2 they should understand how it was like in the young days.

Answer 1

your never to young to fall in love. Everybody views love in different ways and levels. I wouldnt bother telling your parents you love him unless you still love him a year from now, if your parents try not to let you see him dont fight with them it will only make it worse parents dont always know whats best but they are only doing what they think is best and thats protecting you especially from getting hurt, because unfortunatly its gonna hurt when u 2 break up if you do, but thats how you learn and thats what prepares you for your future loves. My advice is to just keep on loving him like there is no tommorow enjoy the feeling but respect and trust your parents, follow your heart... dont have sex!! haha gluck

Answer 2

What you are feeling is hormones kicking in. You are much too young to be talking "love" for some boy. You are setting yourself up for a big let down. Just sit here for a while and read some of these young women and the problems they are having with "Boys" You will put alot of yourself into what you think is a love relationship only to find that it will be gone in a flash and your feelings will be crushed. Don't do this to yourself. Just chill out! You have a long time to go before you will get anything close to "love" from your teenage boyfriends.

Answer 3

I am 26, and remember feeling exactly like that at 13.Turns out they were right, I was too young. But at 13, it doesn't seem like that can be true, it feels so right and so strong and like it will never fade. BUT, you have sooo much more to experience, and remember, this is your first time being 13, how do you really know?? How will you know what it will feel like at 16? You wont, so dont search for the next step just yet, JUST LIVE!!!

Answer 4

You know, I had a similar discussion with my 12 year old daughter this morning.

Slow down. You're only 13. Not everything has to happen all at once.

I know that all you can think about it this boy. I understand that this is huge. That's why you have parents though, because we do remember what it' like to be 13 and in love.

Honestly, slow down and enjoy it.

Answer 5

Perhaps it will occur to you when you're a few years older that your parents got to be older, and got to be your parents by knowing more about life than you do.
In the meantime, I recommend that you trust them.
I don't know of a single 13-year old who even understands what "love" means.
Relax. You have a long life ahead of you. Try to not live it all before you turn 14.

Answer 6

im 14 and not to rock the boat but you could be a little to young to even know what love is

and your parents more then likely dont want to see you get hurt

and it is nice to love someone but you have to think if it is going to last or not

besides we are both still kids and we both need to stay young as long as we can,

i thought i was in love last year but just as my parents predicted some stuff happend and it really hurt and they were there for me not even bothering to say "i told you so",

but dont get me wrong on all this you really could be in love and you two could be together till yall get married its all possible

thats why it is so complicated because every little thing is always possible

you could give him your heart and he deside he doesnt love you any more and a whole list of other things can occur

so listen to your heart, but use your head at the same time

best of luck to ya

email me any time you need to cause you are not alone and i have and are going through the same stuff as you are
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Answer 7

You should simply just respect your parents decision. Right now you would most likely disagree and think that me or anyone else who opposes would just not understand you or the situation you're in, but we do. It might be difficult for you but you should just approach your parents about it and face the fire.

Then again, to play devils advocate, you can simply tell the guy you like him, and just get his number or whatever. Then when you want to go out somewhere, have your parent(s) take you guys to where you wanna go. Dont argue to get them to let you go out alone or be alone with the guy. If you act responsible they will most likely treat you fairly. Just remember though, it might seem like its unfair and whatnot, but you might not completely understand the situation until you're in your parents position, or just a lot older and experienced.

Answer 8

To be honest, you will end up growing and you will change so much. You change big time as you age and the things that you're exposed to at 13 can't compare to the knowledge that you will end up gaining when you're an adult. Heck...even people start wanting different thing when they're 20 compared to 30. All i am saying is that he will change and you will change. This might be stronge feelings but this is not love.

Answer 9

How it is in the young days, as you put it, is that you don't know what true love is. Your parents know this, and are trying to protect you from getting hurt. Listen to them, and you will learn about love as you grow. Someday when you're an adult maybe you'll understand what love is really about.

Answer 10

Well you have to realize they are talking to you based on experience. When you are 13, you will fall in what you think is love many times. You need to realize that this is warm up re;ationships and if it is truly meant to be, it will work out on its own. I am sure they don't want the two of you to move faster than what you are ready for. Remembewr that what you do now will affect your entire future. I didn't realize it then, but i do now that I am older. Try to see it from their perspective. Good Luck