She and her husband seemed to enjoy the gifts and not feel bad at all about not even giving a card.
2006-12-26 15:55:42 · 16 answers · asked by Susan M 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Is it perhaps a question of money? It's quite possible they could not afford gifts.
If it bothers you that much
You might say to her, we are glad you enjoyed the gifts but next year would you like to stop the practice of exchanging gifts if it's a problem to do so?
2006-12-26 16:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by Wicked Good 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Did you give a gift with the expectation of getting one in return, or did you give a gift because you wanted to? It was rude of your daughter to not do anything for you, but I personally don't always expect a gift from everyone I give something to. I give a gift because I want to. I know with family it is different, but do you get along well with your daughter? Maybe this was a sign that something is wrong. Perhaps they ran out of money.
2006-12-26 16:00:27 · answer #2 · answered by Purdey EP 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She is your daughter , why did you give her a gift in the first place? because you expected one or to show her love? Maybe she shows her love in a different way other than giving gifts, maybe she feels pressured and overwhelmed by trying to pick out gifts, maybe she is like me and unorganized and lucky to get cards out the day before Christmas.
If you are feeling hurt or offended, talk to her about it, otherwise, let it go and appreciate the time you get to spend with her.
2006-12-26 16:02:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they couldn't afford gifts at this time. If you feel they could and that you felt very snubbed by them. well next year just send her a card, and your wishes.
Maybe you didn't listen to her if she mentioned No Gifts. It seems you had to ask the question like 3 times in a row.
2006-12-26 16:04:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wouldnt bother me. If it bothers you dont get her anything. All that should be just for kids and spouses anyway. I think a good present to give is to tell everybody else to not worry with the crowds and the hassle and lets just get together and have some fun.
2006-12-26 16:12:18 · answer #5 · answered by Funnel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that everyone should give their Mother a gift even if its something small or handmade.My sister & her family dont even send my mom a card or visit(and they live in the same city).Go figure.I think that is so selfish.My mom is in a nursing home & has always been wonderful to them.
2006-12-26 16:00:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don’t know your daughter, so therefore cannot assume to know the answer. You could conceder various options such as asking if you have done something wrong, if she is in financial trouble, if she was embarrassed because she forgot/in financial trouble. Overall, feel good that you gave her a present and know that you did it out of love for her and hopefully not for something in return
2006-12-26 16:05:42 · answer #7 · answered by Vivid Image 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree. I think I'd wait a few days to make SURE nothing arrived, then I'd have a quiet chat with her alone. I am doubtful you raised her to be a taker & not give in return-that is the concern. I'd want to know if she is doing this to everyone or if she thinks you have no feelings or just WHAT her reasoning is.
2006-12-26 16:00:59 · answer #8 · answered by life coach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are like this I have Family Members that never Thanked Me 4 Making them Home Made Afgans it Hurts but what can U do.
2006-12-26 15:59:43 · answer #9 · answered by sugarbdp1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The younger generation don't appreciate others these days. Say nothing at the moment to save face. next year don't spend as much OR hint to her what you and would like in return. Sorry she didn't gift you.
2006-12-26 16:00:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋