2006-12-26 15:39:59 · 49 answers · asked by Maggie Gee 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Yes! Oh, God! Why in the world would you keep something like that from him? If he was excited, then you'd better tell him now because otherwise it will be harder the longer you wait. If he was freaked out, then tell him because it's unfair.
I do not understand why some women think it's such a flippant thing to hold over a man's head... like when April Fool's Day rolls around, and everyone tells their man that they're pregnant. It's just unethical and cruel.
2006-12-26 15:43:23 · answer #1 · answered by feistycharley 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't be with someone you can't be truthful with. Trust is the most important thing in a relationship. If you don't have that, you have nothing. And if you're not mature enough or old enough to understand the meaning and value of a true, honest relationship, you're not mature enough or old enough for a sexual relationship.
Sex isn't a game. It's a life-altering experience physically and mentally and should be taken more seriously than it is.
2006-12-27 12:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by voxxylady 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it is always adviseable to tell the truth! To lie about a baby is a HUGE deal... I would not do it! The longer you wait to tell him, the more hurt he is going to be. Eventually, he will find out about your lie, and it will make it difficult for him to trust you about anything. That will lead to relationship problems that can grow and grow!!
2006-12-26 15:44:12 · answer #3 · answered by misty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course, tell him the truth. He'll find out sooner or later. If you want to keep this guy as a bf, then be honest!
2006-12-26 15:47:49 · answer #4 · answered by SolMan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nahh..just keep letting him think you're pregnant. Wouldn't that be fun? You can, like, go buy all these cute maternity clothes, get a big strap-on pillow to make your stomach look fat, etc. tee hee tee hee.. Oh wait...he'd probably notice that when you're naked. Scratch that...YES. Golly gee...you should tell him the truth.
2006-12-26 15:49:49 · answer #5 · answered by julesl68 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what does your heart tell you to do? why wouldn't you tell him the truth? if he is your boyfriend would you lie to him? that's the same thing as cheating on him in my book, little girl. in fact just the fact that you had to ask the question in the first place means he deserves better than you.
2006-12-26 15:46:04 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Always tell the truth, its not just all about you, it effects the other persons life to you know.
I can't understand why you would want to play head games like that.
PS I also answered your other question as well
2006-12-26 15:57:15 · answer #7 · answered by deb m 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't be one of those chicks who traps her a man. Get one fair and square. Be a real woman. You are obviously scared that he doesn't want you anymore. If you think that now, just imagine what he'll want when he finds out you're a con.
2006-12-26 15:45:30 · answer #8 · answered by queensassey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, lies in relationships are not a good thing. He will eventually find out and have a very hard time trusting you in the future.
2006-12-26 15:50:04 · answer #9 · answered by Sheila 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
please do the right thing ,go ahead and tell him the truth, as a man i know how it feels , which ever way you look at it, whether he wants the baby or otherwise, tension is created so help him and yourself reveal the truth to him now
2006-12-26 15:45:49 · answer #10 · answered by collie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋