my bf has lied before to me in the past. he hasnt done it in a while. is this a sign that i can start trusting him again. or should i wait a while longer. how will i ever know if he wont be like that again. he lied in the past but not now. will he most likely do some more in the future? what do you think?
2006-12-26 15:19:12 · 10 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's not going to live the rest of his life without telling another lie.
2006-12-26 15:21:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he lied before he’ll lie again. Are you ready to deal with it when he does? Why would you be in a relationship where you don’t have trust? Why are you with somebody who doesn’t make you feel secure and safe? Is that what you consider a good boyfriend? Hardly…move on…
Always remember if you can do better then you should.
2006-12-26 15:22:43 · answer #2 · answered by simm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should always try and trust someone if you are going to be with them. If you can't, then you should not stay in the relationship because you will be miserable! Everyone makes mistakes, so you should forgive him if that's what you choose...but if he does it again, or it continues to happen, I would suggest you leave him. If there is no trust in a relationship, then you have nothing!! That is true!
2006-12-26 15:29:39 · answer #3 · answered by neelc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait a bit...let him earn your trust back. I had to earn ym oyfriends trust back after I went into nude modeling and lied about it.
I ended up continuing with modeling, but to earn his trust, i brought him with me to the photoshoots so that he knew that nothing bad would ahppen. Go with him to the oplaces or thnigs he has lied about - if he refuses to take you, tell him that you have issues trusting a guy who doesnt like to show of his woman.
2006-12-26 15:22:26 · answer #4 · answered by indianteardrops 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should expect people to lie. It's a reaction from guilt and fear of [something]. If he haven't, he probably will. It won't be too big, or too small, but he'll be a childish about it. However, as long as he show sign of guilt, he should be reminded of it every now and then, but not so much that it give him a chance to blow it out of proportion. Good luck with my bad advice.
2006-12-26 15:24:44 · answer #5 · answered by my alias 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could loosen the reins on him but don't give off the saddle. He seems like he could be trusted for CERTIAN things but not everything. If you feel you could trust him then sure,but I feel you should wait for the BIG things. GOOD LUCK!!!!!
2006-12-26 15:24:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust him but remember that if he does it again u cant stay with him cause hell do it again give him a chance now to redeem himself
2006-12-26 15:22:19 · answer #7 · answered by leandrasmiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he will so you sure wait and then watch for him to do it again.
2006-12-26 15:22:44 · answer #8 · answered by bigmomma3526 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to go with your gut on this one
2006-12-26 15:22:20 · answer #9 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure
2006-12-26 16:30:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋