I like this boy that goes to my school. The first semester he was in none of my classes. For the second semester we are going to change classes. I hope I have classes with him. But if we are in the same class how do I start to talk to him??? I don't know how to talk to a guy. HELP!!!!
2006-12-26 15:15:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well this should help you out.... :)
Don't look too eager--he might think you're too obsessed or just flat-out weird.
Before you talk to him, take a deep breath. Seems pointless, but it does help!
Joke around and be fun, be don't try too hard, or you'll make a fool out of yourself.
Smile. Laugh. Flirt a bit. Look like you're having fun.
Don't act weird and laugh at everything the guy says (guys hate that).
When you talk to him, act like he's your friend and remember to breathe.
MAKE EYE CONTACT. I know it's scary, but this will help him know how you feel. Make sure you are smiling while you do it, and do NOT do it for too long. It's not a staring contest.
Be nice to him; guys don't like it if you are mean.
2006-12-26 15:19:57 · answer #1 · answered by Boss 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girls DO NOT know how easily they got it. You can just talk to a guy and if he likes you back just by saying hi he will go home and think about you the rest of the day. Just start talking to him, its him thats going to be nervous, even if you start the convo. Trust me, it isn't as hard as it seems. Just talk to him!
2006-12-26 15:21:07 · answer #2 · answered by tolwc123ag 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is a really corny way but if you are in a subject that he is good at pretend you are bad and ask him for help or if you really are bad ask him for help and if you both are bad you could study and both get better at that subject. or you could just go up to him and say hi and if he says hi start a conversation if you know some stuff he likes talk about that. and if he doesnt respond or anything when you say hi he is probably a dork and you shouldnt like him lol sorry if i didnt help any!
2006-12-26 15:19:49 · answer #3 · answered by lover_gurl_2004_08 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he is in one of your classes just start by introducing yourself or soemting. say hi and smile a couple of times in the hall. it will get him to register your presence and notice you. when your in class talk to him, just start with like hi and maybe soemthing abotu what ever your doing in class. the important part is just to be on the grid, you know? like so he knows you, notices you, looks forward to seeing you. the rest just flows from tehre.
2006-12-26 15:22:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
speaking on the telephone isn't something extreme to fret approximately actual now! At 12 and 13, I talked on the telephone with my boyfriend lots. We in no way observed intercourse... we in simple terms observed our days, human beings in school, issues we cherished, etc. you could consistently consult from her approximately intercourse- every time is a good time to commence this communicate- and be certain you tell her each and every thing... how you may get aids, stds, being pregnant, being pregnant on beginning administration pills, being pregnant with condoms, being pregnant from precum (my 17 year old brother on the time had no theory this could ensue)... so confident, i think of this is something that ought to be counseled. talking on your daughter is very important- to have a good bond together with her. enable her experience mushy adequate around you so she will come back to you if she needs to. in case you ought to, ask her what all she talks approximately on the telephone. i'm optimistic she's no longer shifting too quickly. I even had long talks on the telephone in extreme college and wasn't sexually lively. yet I additionally had mothers and fathers who warned me approximately intercourse- and that i additionally took a Parenting and kin family members class in extreme college that helped me learn extremely lots to boot. communique is very important with your daughter. attempt to no longer choose her too lots- in line with possibility make a shrink of ways long she is authorized on the telephone- my mothers and fathers did that too. yet do no longer grab the telephone faraway from her, she would be so embarrassed.
2016-10-06 01:37:37 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down next to him on the first day and ask how his break has been. If he gives you a solid answer go with it. If not, tell him briefly about yours and then redirect your conversation to someone else around you. Awkward silences can't occur if theres never silence =)
2006-12-26 15:20:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
first, start just waving to him in the halls or smiling. somehow get his name. is he good on computers? is he smart? ask for help on a problem.
try to find his intrests. then spark a conversation. does he like coffee? try to 'accedentally' bumb into him at your local starbucks. drop a pen at his feet or bumb into him with a whole lot of papers.
the possibiliteis are endless!!!!!
2006-12-26 15:21:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you shouldn't make the first move if he really likes you he should be the one doing this that way you can know if he really likes you. If you are really that interested in him just act normal and be yourself don't act someone you're not. Just be friendly and present yourself.
2006-12-26 15:19:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
just ask him questions. try to focus on normal.like dont ask him anything you woulnt normaly ask a boi that you dont know even if you dont like him like that. and if he likes you too then he will put forth some effort in talking to you to.
2006-12-26 15:23:12 · answer #9 · answered by summer girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on weather you are a guy or a girl.Just be your self in general.Confidence is a good thing.
2006-12-26 15:19:38 · answer #10 · answered by paul t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋