I have a huge crush on this boy at my school. His name is Abel, and I heard he's really really shy. He's more shy than I am! I have him for P.E., and I am temped to talk to him, but something keeps holding me back. I really like Abel a lot. He makes me laugh when he's around his "homies". Anybody have some good advice?! I'll reward you!
2006-12-26 15:15:19 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just talk to him
2006-12-26 15:18:07 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this should help :)
Don't look too eager--he might think you're too obsessed or just flat-out weird.
Before you talk to him, take a deep breath. Seems pointless, but it does help!
Joke around and be fun, be don't try too hard, or you'll make a fool out of yourself.
Smile. Laugh. Flirt a bit. Look like you're having fun.
Don't act weird and laugh at everything the guy says (guys hate that).
When you talk to him, act like he's your friend and remember to breathe.
MAKE EYE CONTACT. I know it's scary, but this will help him know how you feel. Make sure you are smiling while you do it, and do NOT do it for too long. It's not a staring contest.
Be nice to him; guys don't like it if you are mean.
2006-12-26 15:21:28 · answer #2 · answered by Boss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel.. I'm 19 and still very awkward around guys I like. But think about it.. if he's more shy than you are then he'll be the one that's nervous. Just talk to him. Remember.. if you never do anything that scares you, you wont get anywhere at all. Good luck.
2006-12-26 15:21:37 · answer #3 · answered by maya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply say to yourself, he's a human just like me. If you're worried you're gonna say or do something silly, just remember he's probably feeling the same way.
Learn how to laugh at yourself sometimes too and that'll help if you do make a blunder.
2006-12-26 15:21:37 · answer #4 · answered by mycountryfamily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, just talk to him anyway. It's endearing to be a little shy at first. After a while, you will get over the shyness--I swear you will. Talk to him now or you will always wonder!
2006-12-26 15:22:43 · answer #5 · answered by Lalalalalala 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try and get to know him first. When he is not in front of his friends. That way since he is shy you can get to know him, he can get to know you and you two can decide if you really like each other.
2006-12-26 15:20:13 · answer #6 · answered by lolita i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋