im almost 16 (male) in highschool. There is this girl that I have always thought of since 2nd grade. Which is the 1st time I saw her. I can remember where she was in the classroom and almost what she was wearing. I think about her almost all the time, I have dreams where she finds out about my feelings and we live happily ever after. I've envisioned us getting married, and having the house, garage, kids, the works. She's the most beautiful girl in school. Everytime I see her I could faint (and I see her everyday) Her blue eyes glisten like the sun hitting snow, her smile lights up the room more than a thousand suns, the way her wavy long brown hair flows... u get the picture. The problem is is that she is like the most popular prettiest girl in school and I am that lonely kid with no friends and freckles that sits in the corner. (this is a metaphor, not 100% true) I have b4 cried b/c can't be with her. I no she wouldn't go out with me. Is this love? how could i get over it if it is?
2006-12-26 15:00:55 · 14 answers · asked by tolwc123ag 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have kinda felt this way before about a girl, but it only lasted about a month, this has lasted AT LEAST a 6 months, and before this year of highschool I always thought of her, but seeing her everyday and talking to her every now and then has brought it out more.
2006-12-26 15:08:46 · update #1
Oh, and i dont actually have freckles, I talk to her a little bit, she is like the perfect girl, she is sweet and caring and nice and has a great sence of humor, but she also has some fiestyness in her. She isn't insecure, and she is the kind of girl who will do something crazy on the spur of the moment.
2006-12-26 15:10:35 · update #2
yup, you're a puppy...
2006-12-26 15:02:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure but I think she is an obession, or hey you might actually have feelings for her. You never know if you try asking her out or talk to her. She might be different from the way you see her or you might even love her and you two were probably meant to be. You never know if you don't try. Go for it! I think that's so sweet many guys are not like that and won't actually admit they like a girl like that there are only a couple of them.
2006-12-26 23:09:10 · answer #2 · answered by Yasmin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to break the ice....go tell her hello and sit with her at lunch.
At least give it a chance, u may like her or she may not be the girl u dream about.
U just physically admiring her now, get to know the real her inside.
She may have feelings for u too.
And freckles---girls love them on guys, so get over that crap.
Just stop being shy and take charge, its easy as 123
2006-12-26 23:05:08 · answer #3 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have the hots for her I won't call it love so I'd say it's puppy love but you should let her know how you feel or you'll spent the rest of your life wondering what would of happened. It could turn into love but right now it's not.
2006-12-26 23:05:43 · answer #4 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i feel the same way about a guy here is what i do to get my mind off of him. if i where u id spend time with my family and listin to music and if ur in high scool and u have liked her that long then its got to be true love.
2006-12-26 23:09:39 · answer #5 · answered by dallas_cowboys231 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because your young that don't mean that you don't know whaat love is only you and the girl can answer the question that is it love or not i believe that it is love becauseme and my husbaND started when i was in high school we been together for ten years and we love each other very much
2006-12-26 23:04:26 · answer #6 · answered by nieshiea f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok umm first b her friend for a while maybe about 1 year then ask her out simple but its going to take a while
2006-12-26 23:14:44 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're infatuated with a dream you've made up.
How do you know she won't go out with you ? Have you asked ?
I think you ought to come back to reality and have a look at what you're doing...ask her out, if she says no...let it go...dreams don't always come true..
2006-12-26 23:05:44 · answer #8 · answered by Chrys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It actually sounds like a bit of an obsession to me.
2006-12-26 23:03:51 · answer #9 · answered by Libby p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could always give it a chance talk to her ask her if she wants to hang out somtime be realy nice to her but give her space noone likes to be maulled but just try you never know whats gunna happen =]
2006-12-26 23:09:20 · answer #10 · answered by babe_cake12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG U R SO SWEET I ALMOST CRIED WHEN I READ THIS.
THIS IS LOVE
B HER SECRET ADMIRER
JUST REMEMBER, SHES NOT PERFECT , HER BUTT STINKS,SHE FARTS WHEN NOONES AROUND,SHE GETS BLOATED,(U GET THE IDEA?) SHES NOT PERFECT
LIKE I SAID:B HER SECRET ADMIRER
GOOD LUCK
2006-12-26 23:11:30 · answer #11 · answered by sexy mama 94 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋