So, theres this guy, and its been kinda rocky for awhile between us. We're never really been officially together, because he had been through so many girls that i just didn't want to be another one. But over the summer he was telling me all this stuff about how he really did want to change, and how he didn't want people to think of him as a player anymore. I was still taking precautions, but i opened my heart a little more to him. Then, out of nowhere [while he was still telling me how much he loved me] he starts dating another girl in our school. He dated her for almost two months before they broke up. Things kinda got better between us for awhile. I was liking the idea of our relationship more and more, but he still wasn't being very open. Then, i just decided that i needed to be in control over my life, so i asked him for finalization. Were we a thing or weren't we? He didn't really answer so i ended it. The next day he's going out with that girl again. Any advice?
2006-12-26 14:43:01 · 8 answers · asked by magicalmayhem_07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't wanna say "once a player, always a player", but patterns like his are very hard to break. Just saying he wants to get out of that pattern doesn't neccessarily make it happen.
Most guys (I say guys because they aren't MEN) go from one woman to another for many reasons. Either they are frightened to be tied down in a relationship because they feel something better might come along any second, or they don't know how to relate to a woman in a relationship sense, or they're afraid to open themselves up emotionally, etc.
I think he might fall into that third category. He seemed to open up to you about getting tired of the player lifestyle. Whether it was a momant of heartfelt honesty or just a line to string you along, I can't tell you.
Either way, a guy like that is definitely not worth your time, because he's surely proven that you are not worth his.
2006-12-26 15:06:29 · answer #1 · answered by randomthoughtpatterns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes just covering his bases, he likes you but hes not into u really. hes a player and not worth the trouble.. get over him there are alot more fish in the sea.
2006-12-26 14:54:09 · answer #2 · answered by nice_2b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IDK approximately courting suggestion .... yet so a techniques as etiquette and protocol is going ... whoever the girl grew to become into that positioned her Award down onto the floor of the degree final evening on the Golden Globes. (i do no longer additionally know her call. i attempted to look it up and that i nonetheless won't be ready to locate it!) No clue who she is, yet in spite of everything .... *ugh* that grew to become into SO cheesy and disrepectful i grew to become into thoroughly bowled over. She positioned her Golden Globe onto the degree floor to grant her popularity speech .... are you kidding me? xoxo ?
2016-11-23 18:53:02 · answer #3 · answered by luciani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like hes still a playa stay away
2006-12-26 14:46:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ask for anything when they havent professed love...Hes gone and hes a wuss anyway Youre better off..
2006-12-26 14:46:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is crazy. He is just telling you what you want to hear.
2006-12-26 14:47:14 · answer #6 · answered by linkielock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hot DAMN! Think about yourself the most.
2006-12-26 14:46:14 · answer #7 · answered by SUNSHINE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gee, just keep fucqing him and have lots and lots of babies and he will ruin your life and then you can come here and ask for somore advice.
yepppheee.
2006-12-26 14:48:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋