should i do?
2006-12-26 14:35:37 · 28 answers · asked by LL 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I suppose you could start staying up all Saturday night, drinking, then pass out about a hour before he normally awakes. He'd have a hard time awakening you then.
2006-12-26 14:59:29 · answer #1 · answered by February Rain 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him that he needs to be more quiet on Sunday mornings as you are sleeping. You should also do what you can to block some of the natural *getting ready* noise he may make. If the two of you can not come to an understanding of respecting each others needs as roomates then maybe you should consider finding a new roomate.
2006-12-26 22:47:59 · answer #2 · answered by catywhumpass 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Is Sunday the only time he wakes you? Do you ever wake him? Do you get this upset over it if he wakes you say on a Tuesday when he is going to school or work? Because on the surface this would be a roommate issue not a religious one and should not be posted in religion and spirituality. In which case you both need to have some consideration for each other. IF you are only upset because it is him going to church, and that is why you posted it in religion and spirituality, then you need to get over that and let him live his life as you would want him to allow you to live yours.
2006-12-26 22:53:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit him down and have a talk with him about his rudeness of waking you up.
If he refuses to cooperate (this is only as a last resort, you've attempted many times to get through to him without success):
1. Wake HIM up if you get up earlier than he does when you go to work.
2. YELL AT HIM as soon as he wakes you up. I mean really blaspheme and cuss, act like you are possessed. (Note: you might want to lock your door or be wary of people coming to exorcize you).
But really, I'd sit down and talk to him and tell him he is being an inconsiderate roommate and not a good Christian one at that.
Do you guys have equal amounts towards the place you are renting? If you pay more, see what you can do to remove him. If you pay less, find another place to live, with people that are considerate.
2006-12-26 22:49:47 · answer #4 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for another room. If you are paying for the room for both of you then you have the right to kick him out. Talk to him and tell him not to wake you up. If you cannot do anything about it just live with it.
2006-12-26 22:45:50 · answer #5 · answered by Rallie Florencio C 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Is he trying to get you to go or is he just waking you up by moving around? These are to distinct things. The one I would ignore and not worry about. The other would require large quantities of diet coke and mentos to resolve.
2006-12-26 22:48:51 · answer #6 · answered by Sketch 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is he being extra noisy on Sunday morning? If so and he is showing no consideration make sure he gets woken up frequently Saturday night. And then find a new roomy.
2006-12-26 22:43:06 · answer #7 · answered by Barabas 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Confront him in love.
Lock your door.
If all else fails, have a very serious talk about what it will take for this to end. Put the ball in his court. Must you move out? WHatever....just get him to tell you what is necessary for this behaviour to stop.
David
2006-12-26 22:52:06 · answer #8 · answered by David T 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming you expect him to respect your beliefs and not preach at your, right? Well, then I would expect you would have the same consideration, and allow the guy a little freedom to live his life, even if it does create a slight damper on your Sunday morning snooze. Honestly. Invest in a pair of earplugs for Saturday night and get over it.
2006-12-26 22:46:17 · answer #9 · answered by Cari 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
I would tell him ur concerns, and then ask him if there is some way that he can be quieter as to not disturb your sleep.
If ur a reasonable person, and he's a reasonable person I am sure you will be able to come to a satisfcatory agreement :)
2006-12-26 22:45:59 · answer #10 · answered by its_just_me 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋