what to do when you love a girl and she likes you but she doesnt wanna hurt another guy that likes her so she wont say yes when you ask her out.........i really truly am in love with her......what should i do?
2006-12-26 14:21:27 · 23 answers · asked by dfhfdh d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Shes lying to you, she doesn't like you most likely. Its an excuse to not hurt you feelings. Give her an ultimatum it will let you know how she really feels.
2006-12-26 14:23:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You can't do anything if she won't say yes. You can only be her friend if you can stand it. Is she dating this other guy? If she is, you should not ask her out. If she isn't dating this other guy, it sounds like she likes him otherwise, why would she really care if she hurts him by going out with you? I am sorry about this. It really "sucks" when you really care for someone who doesn't care for you in the same way.
I wouldn't hang around for her to hopefully love you in the same way. It is time to move on. You can't change your feelings for her, but you can move on with knowing you let her know and you can love someone again. Do things with your friends and family. Try to volunteer somewhere and help others so that you will not hurt as much inside. When you are helping others, your spirit will lift when you see their smiles as you help them. Hugs to you. I wish for you a better new year. Don't lose your good spirit inside.
2006-12-26 22:28:29 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't want to hurt you. You love her there is no doubt but you need to realize that she wont' go out with you. You need to find someone who likes you. Try to find a girl who is not so popular where she worries about hurting their feelings. She has been around the block and it seems to me that when she gets tired of them she dumps them. Try to find an unpopular girl and don't listen to your friends. She will end up loving you the same and you don't have to worry about being dumped when she goes tired of you.
2006-12-26 22:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by myangelbarry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might not be the thing you want to hear, but if she was as much into you as you sound into her, then she would not have a problem saying yes. The other guy is giving her an excuse to turn you down.
If I was really into someone I would not have a problem telling another guy ( and trust me, I am a big people person) but when it comes to matters of the heart, your heart acts on a beat. If she wanted to go out with you as much as you want to go out with her she would be thinking of an excuse to tell him and not you.
2006-12-26 22:26:55 · answer #4 · answered by bibi99bibi2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it lust or is it love...
My BEST advice to you is to ask and pray about it... God will truly give you the right girl... He will send her to you when you stop searching and trust God with ALL of your heart...
A lot of people just keep searching and dating.. hoping to find that right one.. but when your eyes are fixed on Jesus... He will be all that you need, and when He feels the time is right, He will send the lucky lady.. it just takes perseverance, trust and faith...
Trust me on this...
Trust God on this...
I hope you will take my advice
You're so special and you can truly get the best, why settle for less?!?
Blessings
Ur special
2006-12-26 22:28:55 · answer #5 · answered by Mickey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. Ask her if she has considered the fact that she may hurt you more if she tries "not to hurt you" by saying no? If she already has a boyfriend, then get over her, there is someone better out there for you.
2006-12-26 22:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does not love you back if she did she would say sorry other guy but I am into this one this not wanting to hurt his feelings is a bunch of bull so move on and find someone that will like you back no matter who likes them !
2006-12-26 22:22:57 · answer #7 · answered by Angel Virgo 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just wait. Patience is a Virtue! Time will tell what is the right thing to do. I know is hard but you can't make someone do something that they don't want because of other obstacles.
2006-12-26 22:25:29 · answer #8 · answered by Yvette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy really loves a girl and cares about her and is a real man, he'd wait no matter what.
2006-12-26 22:24:38 · answer #9 · answered by Butterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure the feelings are mutual? Sounds like it may be one sided and you're the one that she doesn't want to hurt.
2006-12-26 22:33:29 · answer #10 · answered by Cheryl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋