Should I be friends with someone I know who is a womanizer/playboy?

Question

I have a guy friend or used to be who I thought liked me and was maybe my secret pal and paid me a lot of attention and then I find out that he really has a string of women of not really being serious about commitmen to anybody but then makes them look like they chase after him instead the other way around. Should I even continue being friends with him? I don't know if we have a lot in common because when he started acting goofy with me I found it hard to talk to him. Now, I find it hard to carrry on conversations with him without running the other direction because I am uncomfortable with him. He knows how I feel about things that have upset me but could really careless. Any suggestions? Why do guys do this? Afraid of commitment or just want to see how far they can get?

Answer 1

It really depends on the guy and on their age to be honest. If he at least cared about your feelings about him being a womanizer and dragging you along with a string of other chicks I'd say try to keep the friendship. I doubt you can have a meaningful relationship with this guy if he doesn't care about how you feel. Also, you say you seem to have little in common... I say ditch the guy if he's not putting any effort into the friendship anymore. As for considering dating him, not worth the trouble if he seems to be doing this to a lot of chicks. A lot of girls think that they can change a guy around, but it rarely happens and only time will tell. I say avoid the headache unless you feel really strongly about this dude.

Answer 2

He's obviously just interested in playing the field. Unless you want to be left on the sidelines, always wondering where he is and who he is with, I would keep my distance. As far as being friends, it is fine to be cordial, just don't make him think it's more.

Answer 3

ok act like u wanna do stuff wit him but make sure hes drunk first then tie him up and leave his sorry *** wit the doors wide open 4 everyone to c