Well i met a guy at work and he's 2 years older with me and goes to another school. We hung out one night and he bought me dinner and then 2 days later we hung out again and had ALOT of fun. When we worked together we flirted alot and everyone saw it. He always tickled me and gave me looks and everyone said it was cute. I was really starting to like him and thinking there was something between us. He is a big popular jock at his school and all of a sudden a couple days after we hung out he had a girlfriend. I was kinda lost and didn't know what to say. Here i found out he's the kinda of guy that dates any girl that will give it up. I was really heart broken cause he really started leading me on. I mean i'm glad that i'm not a girl that gives it up but that makes me mad. Do i have the right to mad? I mean i'm so sick of guys leading me on and then leaving me alone/ditching me because i don't put out like anyone. Its not my fault is it?
2006-12-26 14:10:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just i've never had a boyfriend but I'm very popular. I mean it seems that guys lead me on all the time. It makes me mad.
2006-12-26 14:11:36 · update #1
They fall for my sterotype of I'm blonde, in 3 sports and have big "jugs". They figure i'm easy to nail and a big partier. It really frustrates me.
2006-12-26 14:13:00 · update #2
I'm 17 fyi
2006-12-26 14:15:42 · update #3
Nope! It's not your fault, but now is not the time to pity yourself, its the time to learn from your mistakes and move on. Next Relationship Try following my five biblical principles for finding a soul mate, to test the guy you like and see if he's a player or something more, Trust Me! These rules work and there is nothing like the ever loving God and Jesus Christ on your side!
1. Does he love you for who you are (inside first than out)? The Bible says: *“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth.” 1 Corinthians 13:4-6
2. Does he honor you? Will he do things just to make you happy? Will he try some of the things you are interested in or maybe shares some of the same interests and hobbies? The Bible says:
* “Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves.” Romans 12:10
3. Cherishes your body, mind and soul? Doesn't go to far on these things until your ready? The Bible says: * “Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet Spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.” 1 Peter 3:3-4
4. You trust him to the fullest? He is your best friend and you are his? The Bible Says: * “ Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes always perseveres.” 1 Corinthians 13:7
5. You communicate well? He understands you like he could be your twin? The Bible says: * “ Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful, that it may benefit those who listen.” Ephesians 4:29
To Sum it up: Stick to 1. Love 2. Honor 3. Cherish 4. Trust 5. Communication and I promise if your relationship is based on these things you will know what its like to find true love! And Yes! I have used my principles myself and I am convinced I have found my soul mate! But to find her I also used these same principles to weed out my soul mate from the relationships that just didn't work. In addition, letting God and Jesus Christ lead your heart, mind, body and soul also aid in the weeding process. God Bless!
2006-12-26 14:41:37 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Betty Sparkles' fault
2016-05-23 09:22:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a nutshell, this guy sounds like a real jerk. You have a right to be mad. I also hope that you don't put out easy because of this guy. Look at this as a life experience and move on :)
2006-12-26 14:15:03 · answer #3 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should ask them out earlier when you start to find out that you have feeling for them. They might be to shy to ask you out because you might reject them. I dont blame you for been mad but if thats all he was looking for it was a good thing that he found some1 else instead of you finding out that he just wante you to put out. And no its not your fault you sound to be getting on really well together.
2006-12-26 14:17:26 · answer #4 · answered by Bex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel its not ur faul it cuz guys all want one thing and there r some out there that dont but a lot of them have one thing on their mind if u dont put out that awsome u shouldnt have to for a guy that wouldnt b good ull find someone that likes u for u trust me this guy aint woth it i liked this guy he liked me but also had gfs wen he supposedly liked me a lot its so not worth it at all
2006-12-26 14:14:55 · answer #5 · answered by cb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not your fault at all. It was totally indecent of him to lead you on like that and tell you he has a girlfriend. You have every right to be angry. Guys like that are not worth it.
2006-12-26 14:16:26 · answer #6 · answered by Mixedbrunette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no exactly what u mean! everytime sumone flirts with me , i turn around and think i got a chance but they end up beenin jerks or taken! but trust me ur prince charming will come!
2006-12-26 14:14:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey,It's because he is a guy want his cake and eat it to.Don't let him get you down.Start to flirt with one of his friends in front of him.Make sure you like him and he has no girlfriend.
2006-12-26 14:19:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you do have the right to be mad, i mean seriously, he just wanted a good time, and it was a good thing that you didnt give it to him.
its totallly not your fault my question is why would you think that
2006-12-26 14:14:39 · answer #9 · answered by tabina644 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to stereotype but he sounds one of the sudden relationship type of people. he flirts cuz that is what he does. its like his "natural" reaction. it's just what he does.
2006-12-26 14:13:42 · answer #10 · answered by linkielock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋