Blind date tomorow?
ok i am going on a blind date tomorw i dont know what this girl looks like my buddy set us up ok we are seeing a movie im a little scared and nervous give me some tips please guys and girls
2006-12-26 13:59:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be urself.
2006-12-26 14:04:37 · answer #1 · answered by sanJose_Guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello!
I suggest that you be yourself. It's normal to be nervous on any first date be it blind date or simply first date.
Sounds like you have a good plan going to the movies , I suggest that before entering the movie where it can be loud etc. ask her if she'd like to get a latte or have a light dinner afterwards.
This will give you and her a chance to see if there are some sparks or interest. Don't worry about her looks etc... if she isn't your type then still have a good time and know that you've made another friend in this world.
Don't be someone your not, ask her things about herself such as things she likes,if she's in college find out what her study is things like that. Never talk politics or religion please!!
Don't try any smooth talking lines like "oh baby the sky is empty tonight because the stars are in your eyes" type thing..LOL
It's simple be yourself and I am sure the both of you will have a fantastic time!! Oh if your picking her up please walk her to the door once you return her home and also open and close the door for her.. Be a gentleman always walk to her outside closet to the street etc.. it's the proper thing to do. And if there are any steps to climb offer her your hand. Even if she doesn't take it , trust me she'll notice how much of a real man and gentleman your being.
Good Luck and have a good time!!
2006-12-26 22:09:49 · answer #2 · answered by ssgtmommy01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go and enjoy the movie and getting to know her. Come up with three things you'd like to learn about her: favorite song, best memory, etc. That'll take some pressure off of you and you'll be able to decide if you want to date her or just be friends. It doesn't matter what she looks like in the long run. Gorgeous people can turn ugly if they have ugly personalities and visa versa.
2006-12-26 22:03:22 · answer #3 · answered by Julie N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and be yourself, being someone else will just make her either like a different person or dislike you for the wrong reasons. Just be nice and find something in common.
2006-12-26 22:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by Lizrd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude take a deep breath...just relax. When you meet this girl just be yourself - as if you knew this girl forever. So, now you know what to do, go out there and be that guy you know you are!
2006-12-26 22:04:17 · answer #5 · answered by PooFy_HaiR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep amn open mind. i've been on blind dates before and just as long as you remenber who you are and what your looking for it should be ok
just remember that even if she isnt your type, dont mean that you cant have a good time
2006-12-26 22:11:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can always have a buddy call you at a certain time, so you can get out of it...but remember, that even if she's Alpo, she has feelings. Do unto others...
2006-12-26 22:02:06 · answer #7 · answered by heatherbee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
somebody sounds a bit nervous... just be yourself because if you guys hit it off and you weren't being yourself, it'll get tiring acting all the time. and even if you don't like the person, just try to have fun, and don't give your date your cell number. your date'll get the hint.
2006-12-26 22:02:03 · answer #8 · answered by 1.4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the girl to meet u their so u can deal with the movie(its in the dark) then if u dont like her you dont have to deal with her on the way taking her home
2006-12-26 22:02:59 · answer #9 · answered by lil lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to relax and act casual. Find things to talk about.
2006-12-26 22:02:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice smiling.
2006-12-26 22:00:59 · answer #11 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋