thing happened, I dunno but he just wasn't into me, instead of leading conversations with him, I was nervous to be in one! me thinking he would be honored to know I reckognised his very existence! now I find myself staring at his myspace and tracking down every comment he posts about every girl. Iv'e had wayy hotter bfs than him and now im acting like a stalker! so thers this one girl named Christine shes 12 ! 12!!! and me and Jo(the guy) are in our freshman year of high school, he talks to her alot -online since they don't go to the same school... see how do I know this stuff i'm going crazy! I really really like him, alot! I just want to be w/ him soo bad. how do I get us together??
2006-12-26 13:58:54 · 3 answers · asked by volleyballwootwoot 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This happens to the best of us and no it doesn't make sense. You need to stop this behavior immediately. He is your friend, not your boyfriend. You've never even discussed commitment and you're obsessively thinking about him and checking his every move. You need to get offline, get out in the world and meet the guy who measures up to what you feel you deserve, not some sorry dude that is talking to a little chick who just started puberty. Think about this..as amazing as you believe you are you acting as if you're worthless. He should be stalking you and trying to figure out how he can have you. He already has you drooling and he hasn't done ANYTHING. You're allowing him to have too much control over you. He's needs to earn you and you're giving him yourself on a silver platter with no effort on this part. There's no way he will value or respect you if he can have you that easy.
I'm sure you're beautiful and having all these emotions has you feeling a little bit out of control. Chill out, don't talk to him for a while..ignore him if you have to until you're cool and STOP looking at his myspace. I bet in two weeks he'll be last year's news.
Besides if he wanted you, you wouldn't have to stalk him he'd be right by your side.
2006-12-26 14:08:11 · answer #1 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are a lot slower at that age to pick up on things than girls are. He may very well not be interested in you, but if you back off and give things some time, he may be knocking at your door before summer!
2006-12-29 17:20:40 · answer #2 · answered by secondwish02 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hopefully he never remembers you
2006-12-26 22:01:59 · answer #3 · answered by bama_cid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋