My bf dumped me two weeks ago. It was a long-distance relationship and he said he was lonely and hinted at being with someone else. We were engaged. I love him deeply. My family have all passed away. My friends are all travelling with their husbands and wives. It was the worst Christmas of my life, and my ex has been posting pictures and video of his wonderful Christmas with his family all over the internet... Sorry. Just needed to vent for a moment. I am broken.
2006-12-26 13:58:09 · 18 answers · asked by glimetta 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am so sorry to hear that. I know your loney and miss him in all but this goes to show you that you and him aren't meant to be. I know it's hard that your friends are married but hang in there you'll meet mr. right. Don't get depressed and lonely I know it's hard when your heart is broken belive me I've been there but you gotta hold your head up high and move on.
2006-12-26 14:02:16 · answer #1 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your X sounds like an @ss. Sorry to hear you've been hurt so badly. Don't look a this pictures. They will only upset you more. Do whatever you have to do to get yourself together and move on. Counseling if need be, but vow not to dwell on it too long. Otherwise a period of mourning of the relationship will hold you back from the life and happiness you deserve. Get involved. There are lots of foster kids out there who need good parents. Consider foster parenting and become involved in making your own family and happiness.
2006-12-26 14:02:49 · answer #2 · answered by Wicked Good 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to hear that. Sometimes, when things don't work out, it might be just for the best. Better things will come along or I should say, someome better will come along who will fall deeply in love with you and vice versa. Long-distance relationships usually don't work. I know you are broken, but you'll have to take it in and let time pass by. But if I were you, I'll go out and find someone else too. Go out and have fun!!!
2006-12-26 14:02:39 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are tough, sorry to hear yours didn't work out. Try to talk to your friends a bit. Treat yourself to a nice home cooked meal, rent a bunch of movies to take your mind off things for a while. Go shopping with the money you would have spent on him and buy yourself some christmas gifts. :)
2006-12-26 14:03:49 · answer #4 · answered by hilaire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why didnt you try to go to him or near him? You seem to be in the transition of your life. I think you could have worked it out if that were the case. Log distant relationships are usually for college students, not midlife adults. You need to go to him somehow and make it work asap. Talk about it and make a change in your life by getting closer geographically.
2006-12-26 14:03:56 · answer #5 · answered by sk20007623 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, so sorry to hear about that. The only good part IS that he did it before Christmas. If he did it right after, you would have known the your Christmas had been a lie.
2006-12-26 14:00:34 · answer #6 · answered by Tina K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear about what happened to you. Don't you have any single friends where you can go out for a beer and commisserate? If not, try to pamper yourself. Bath stuff, new lingerie, a new outfit. Flowers. Some junky novels. A good movie.
2006-12-26 14:02:44 · answer #7 · answered by silverside 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quick! Break out the ice cream and watch TV, girl! If he does that he isn't worth it. K? Hes a jerk, a bastard, the girls a *****, and I'm getting a bit colorful, and theres others. Lots of others. You didn't really love him if he'd do that. He couldn't have loved you either. It wasn't ment to be. But theres always somone. K? I hope it gets better.
2006-12-26 14:01:23 · answer #8 · answered by Buffy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to hear that. its good that you let some of this out on the internet. honestly, thats cruel and heartless of him to dump you before christmas. he must be pretty messed up in the head and/or a prick to do that.
2006-12-26 14:00:28 · answer #9 · answered by Thrumper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow, u need to cheer up and get over him quick. He aint worth getting upset about.
Just think positive thoughts and the right one will come your way.
Forget other lives and concentrate on your happiness.
2006-12-26 14:00:24 · answer #10 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋