We met fourth of July 2005. I really liked him and he liked me too but we both decided that it doesn't make sense for us to date but i still want us to. i haven't seem him since that year and everytime we try to set it up for us to see each other it doesn't work out. we talk online or on the phone everyday but i want us to date although i know that's not what he wants...and since we live so far away it's kind of pointless since we can't see each other
2006-12-26 13:51:51 · 14 answers · asked by Monica. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I don't know exactly how far he lives away from you, but if you and he are both willing to contribute to the relationship now matter what, then you should pursue this relationship. You shouldn't let something like distance get in the way of it. You have to remember one thing. If it ends up getting serious, one of you will end up having to move in order to be together. You have to look into it and see the possibilities. If you talk everyday, it sounds like something you may want to go after. Good luck!
2006-12-26 13:55:34 · answer #1 · answered by C_Rock136 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello female here ok
just wanted to say this ok dont let the distance come between u and this man bc if u 2 really want to be togeather as u say u do then itll work out its like the age thing heres an example k that when someone is 45 and ur just 32 its a number right ? then dont let that stop u i had to live 4.5 hrs away from my husband now for about 4 months before we got married and at 1 time we both thought it mite be pointless but we new what each other wanted and that was each other and here we are now
we started talking in august 22,2006 started dating on september 3,2006 and got married n december of 06
we chatted on the phone or on line all the time as u say u have with this man so hun please take it from someone whos been thru this before if its meant for u to be togeather itll work
keep in touch with us and let us no how it turned out
2006-12-26 14:00:02 · answer #2 · answered by Angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys usually can't wait... they think about what is in front of them and if you aren't there... he will find another girl even if he thinks that you are an angel sent from heaven....it happened to me....
this guy and i met and then when he went back to his town and me to mine.....he decided that it would be easier for us to not have any tie downs..... he has a girl and the easiest way for me to get over him was by not talking to him until i could think of him as only a friend...... it's hard and i still cry after phone calls but things go on.. it will hurt and the most important thing is to remember that if it is meant to be...then you will reunite and you both will be better prepared for it
2006-12-26 13:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by Punkd_rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesnt want to date you it might be hard, i am engaged to someone from a whole different country, he is here now but we talked online and over the phone for 6 or 7 months before he finally was able to come... he came a couple of times though but he has to want it too for it to work out in any situation not just yours. Its really hard though not to be able to see them and knowing you love them so much... be prepared if it works out hopefully... its frustrating!
2006-12-26 13:55:47 · answer #4 · answered by SB33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it, I had a long distance relationship. Just be friends or you'll only end up hating each other for not making the effort. You'll end up feeling tied down to a ghost.
2006-12-26 13:54:30 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The relationship between distance and require commitment to a relationship is positively correlated. Be prepared to pour a lot into this .
2006-12-26 13:54:13 · answer #6 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry 2 say this but it cant work, he might be cheating on u, ill call it quits, look 4 a guy who lives in ur area, dont fall for the first fish u catch
2006-12-26 13:55:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. You are making too much about this whole situation since its all about what you want from him. Its healthier if you move on and reduce your time talking to him.
2006-12-26 13:57:17 · answer #8 · answered by sk20007623 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your over 30 it can work
2006-12-26 13:53:47 · answer #9 · answered by bama_cid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know what he wants?
maybe you should ask him.
maybe you just doubt yourself so much that you can't get what you want.
maybe a little confidence and two people who are hopeless could find each other complete each other
2006-12-26 13:56:48 · answer #10 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋