awkward question..?

Question

basically, my boyfriend doesnt last very long in bed and I was wondering why that may be. he doesnt do drugs, and drinks occasionally.

any ideas..?

Answer 1

viagra. maybe your so beautiful you make him tired

Answer 2

well the squeeze method works great

just about when he is ready to cu m grab him by the base and squeeze really hard, till he quits pumping, this will do 2 things make him harder and stop him from cumming, continue to do this over time and he wil last longer

another method that works for me, right when i am about to cu m i slow my strokes down, i do c um, but at the right pace i stay rock hard and can run this out for 5 or 6 of my own orgasms
and an hour and a half later my gal has had more than enough ;-)


another thing that works 1st go down on him and finish the mission, then have him go down on you and have him finish the mission, by then he will be ready for round 2 and he will last alot longer

Answer 3

Could be that he wants to be the original minute man, or maybe his style is after NASCAR... you go as fast as you can and try to be the first to finish.

The first time is always the easiest and quickest... maybe a hand job (or something else) to get it over with and the the next event will not come so quickly and you may be happier with the results

Answer 4

Try to get him to relax. Often slowing things down with oral sex and/or foreplay helps as long as you control the pace. He also needs to have regular sex so that he does not become too horny from having to wait for extended periods. Irregular intervals of sex can also can cause him to be premature. In the heat of passion, recognize that stimuli in the form of friction and heat will make him more likely cause him to ejaculate - again slow the pace and do not make him too hot.....Good Luck.

Answer 5

If you can talk openly with him about the situation then you want to suggest that he "empties the chamber" ahead of time. Basically, he needs to masturbate before you guys hit the sack! By doing this he is going to last longer because it will take his body some time to "reload"; it delays ejaculation. The more he does this... the longer he'll last!
Good luck!

Answer 6

Mind over matter! He needs to learn some dick control. Give him a chance. If he did drugs or drank a great deal then the problem would go in the opposite direction. God bless****

Answer 7

It could be you turn him on so quickly he doesn't last very long. Maybe you need more foreplay or something. It could be he hasn't had sex in awhile (that's a good thing). Don't give up on this one - be patient play around a little more.

Answer 8

even on the second time? Because usually the first is always fast but the jerks usually say,"sorry" and and roll over and go to sleep because they don't really want to make love to you but get off. have him checked out for any problems and then either learn ways to slow down where you enjoy it or understand that you are being used. If he truly care about your needs then he will learn to make love to you rather than 'jack leg' you.

Answer 9

example
first time a guy sleeps with a girl and doesn't last very long
obvously he's too excited
but as more time happens he'll last longer
because it's like doing drugs
he needs a litle bit higher dose everytime to reach it

Answer 10

You can control that by slowing things down when he's about to finish. Doing that continuiously may be a pain, but it will allow him to last longer.

Answer 11

If he doesn't last long enough for you to orgasm, request more foreplay. Sometimes guys are just like that. You should be flattered because it's an indication that he finds you too hot to contain himself. Go, girl.