I'm intelligent, fit, well educated, well read... I care about my family and people in general. I'm responsible, extremely loyal, and even handed. I'm reasonable, logical, but I'm a feeling and caring person. I'm not afraid to talk about how I feel about everything because it doesn't make me feel vulnerable. I'm not good with tact and I tend to tell people exactly, bluntly, and honestly what they want to know... sometimes at my own expense. I have an excellent job with a good future. I carried the dreams of my youth and never became cynical about them, I realize that they are idealistic, but I still plan to carry them through. I'm the friend you only read about in books and see in movies that's there for you no matter what and the partner that is always faithful and solid as an anchor in your life. I have enough love to drown you in it and enough knowledge for any conversation and more patience and calmness then the mountain. As a woman would you want to get to know me better?
2006-12-26 13:43:24 · 17 answers · asked by Jim Z 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For those of you who care about looks I'm:
5'7"
175
Average build
Full head of hair
No glasses
Brwn hair/eyes (full head of hair)
Olive complexion
Slightly above average looks (been told I'm handsome, but I don't rate myself that high)
2006-12-26 13:51:46 · update #1
I'm not desperate for female companionship at this time in my life. I'm actually taking a break and trying to get to know women a little better and overcome some of my preconceptions. Asking this question helps me to understand if women value the traits I value most about myself (I do have other ones).
I'm trying to be as honest with my self description as I possibly can so I can get the same honesty in return.
BTW - I'm 32
2006-12-26 14:08:33 · update #2
In answer to some criticisms: I'm sure you've met some guys who put up a front and hurt you or who put up the nice guy act just to get with you. A girl did that to me some years ago and it hurt very, very badly as I'm sure it hurt you. However, if I can get over it and admit that there are some decent wonderful women who are what they say they are then I would hope you can too and take me at my word for it.
2006-12-26 14:13:51 · update #3
Well duh! Of course I would. You sound like a treasure. Don't tell me that you are having trouble getting a woman?
2006-12-26 13:48:35 · answer #1 · answered by sunny 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a nice person to me.
I have to say though, such an obvious question must have a reason behind its asking. I'm no psychologist, but I can think of two reasons: ego and relationship problems (including difficulty finding a girlfriend).
For the first: sorry, but get a life. You sound like a really interesting person I would love to know (we seem to have a lot in common, including the ego, minus the patience and job), but if you're looking for an ego booster, talk to your family and friends. Why ask complete strangers who have no way of verifying your statements?
Second: if you've had a relationship problem, it might just be the other person's problem. Some people are just weird and you can't control them, or maybe your gf felt she couldn't respect you because you never said no. Sounds weird, but that can kill a relationship. If you can't get a girl, just keep waiting. You will find someone who is right for you. Get involved in activities you like and be outgoing. Good luck.
Liebe und Frieden
2006-12-26 21:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by Lizrd 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I would like to get to know you!!! You sound like a very interesting and cool guy. One question how old are you? Women, not all women, but a lot of women go for looks and if you don't have them then they're not interested. Just wait and see if you find Mrs. Right she's out there just like my Mr.Right is hopefully out there lol. Enjoy life in the meantime have fun with friends, keep going with your career and carry out all of your dreams. Good Luck!!
2006-12-26 21:58:20 · answer #3 · answered by cute_chica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a good person but kinda of a bore. you sound like ya think about yourself alot and it might be a good idea to have some tact and class and not say what is exactly what is on your mind. i'm sure ya have some bad traits also,so do us a favor and come down from your pedestal. you might just have more fun!!!
2006-12-26 22:03:47 · answer #4 · answered by flirty eyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Jim are you the 40 yrs virgin, because what I have read above, you sound just like him. Man, women only care what is your total net worth, they could put out with your flaws. Just pay attention to the richest men and their looks with the hottie whom they are nailing each night. Do you really think those bimbos would gave them the time of the day or night? Of course not. Jim, If I were you, thank God, I would strictly concentrate on maximizing your net worth. Trust me, the wealthier you get, the thinner and younger your ladies will be. Good luck young Jedi.
2006-12-26 21:49:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You have all those traits, but darling- are you cute? You sound like you're describing Bill Gates- he has everything except the looks. Looks arent everything, but they help. If you are attractive, yes I would get to know you, but the fact that you're asking this question is not very promising!
2006-12-26 21:46:39 · answer #6 · answered by flirt6angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to good to be true ,i had a guy feed me alot of lines fell for it got hurt,but haven't dated much eatheir .but sounds like someone that would be nice to know more.
2006-12-26 21:48:05 · answer #7 · answered by michelle b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sure that's Ur opinion of ur self but ask ur former g/f and she will tell a different picture of u that may surprise u .... but if u r truly like what u described then sure ur a good catch
2006-12-26 21:47:51 · answer #8 · answered by amal L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are real can you tell me in which state you live in so I can ask you out for coffee?
2006-12-26 21:48:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would, but only if I had met you in real life, and not online.
2006-12-26 21:48:07 · answer #10 · answered by oh really 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your too stuck on yourself to notice a quality woman.
2006-12-26 21:47:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋