i used to like this guy and now hes going out with this girl for a while. I havent thought about him for a while but now hes flirting with me alot. im afraid that his girlfriend will catch us and then i would have to deal with that. their relationship isnt going anywhere thought. If i keep flirting with him, then he might ask me out.
2006-12-26 13:34:26 · 52 answers · asked by midwest girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
his girfriend flirts with other people
2006-12-26 14:02:49 · update #1
Sweetheart, you don't want a boy who is flirting with you while he's dating someone else. Even though it seems like you're the girl he wants now, he's just going to do that to you with someone else if you start dating him!
2006-12-26 13:38:03 · answer #1 · answered by answergrrl3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You give no details, so it's hard to say if you're overreacting. Giving you the benefit of the doubt, I'd first talk to your girlfriend and get her take. If she thinks he's being inappropriately flirty then the two of you should work out how to react when he starts it. Cold silence works, from both of you, when he starts. Also excusing yourself if possible for a short duration from his presence would work. If your girlfriend sees nothing wrong with his behavior, or doesn't see him flirting, you should explain that sometimes you feel uncomfortable and see if she's willing to not have him around or be less friendly for a time. Your final option and this should be handled only as a last resort. Is to talk to your friend and say that you value his friendship, but you think his behavior is uncool. Try to put it on yourself "I'm probably being a dick, or paranoid, but could you not slap my girlfriend's ***?" Be prepared for damage to the relationship temporary or permanent.
2016-05-23 09:20:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And if he ask you out and you become the girlfriend what would he do to you. Would he flirt with other girls and think that the relationship isnt going any where. Leave him alone he has a girlfriend I am sure you dont want to take her place. He isnt respecting his girlfriend.
2006-12-26 13:38:06 · answer #3 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES BY ALL MEANS! When you flirt with a taken guy, you're just asking for trouble. Yeah it sucks when a guy becomes taken, but the best way to handle it is to try to get over it (or like someone else even lol).
And taken guys that flirt is SO WRONG. They know its not right, if he tries to flirt again i'd try bringing up his g/f in the conversation.
2006-12-26 13:39:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he flirts with you while he is in a relationship then what makes you think that he won`t do the same to you? It doesn`t matter if their relationship is going anywhere or not, they ARE still together for some strange reason! Leave that one alone!
2006-12-26 13:38:20 · answer #5 · answered by Roxie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay why would you want to "get with" a guy that already has a girlfriend? Doesn't that show you he has no respect for women if he's flirting around and trying to hook up with other girls, such as yourself? Don't you think if he got with you, that eventually he'd do the same thing to you as well?
I wouldn't trust him, or ever be able to, knowing how we started out.
2006-12-26 13:37:25 · answer #6 · answered by Jen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All is fair in love and war... Just remember never to get upset when he starts flirting with other girls if you end up with this guy. You will also do nothing for your reputation by being a flirt.
2006-12-26 13:38:21 · answer #7 · answered by anikintyme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so the two of you have been flirting. So you assume there's some interest on his part. Wait and see what happens w/his relationship so you don't have to deal with that trouble. Then be patient. It'll either happen or it won't.
2006-12-26 13:36:48 · answer #8 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirting does not mean it'll become a deep relationship. Make your intention clear to him, and flirt away. It could help develop a non-sexual relationship that resemble sibling's, without the envy and jealousy. (can't think of the word right now)
2006-12-26 13:40:01 · answer #9 · answered by my alias 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be that girl. He doesn't like you enough to break up with her. And even if he was with you, do you think that would stop him from flirting with another girl? I mean, he's already doing it. Stay away from this one. There are plenty of other men out there.
2006-12-26 13:40:10 · answer #10 · answered by oh really 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋