Boy Problem.. Help Please =( I'm desperate.?

Question

Here's the thing: Well I like this kid.. he doesn't go to my school; he's a grade older, but he's in the same district as me. I know him because he's my uncles bestfriends son, &in the summer my uncle goes camping &his bestfriend goes &brings his family too.. anyway I fell for him in the summer. The thing is I've barely talked to him. There's just something about him I fell for, &I still months later don't know what it is... anyway; he knew that I liked him but he's REALLY shy.. &I don't know after summer ended I just felt like I needed to get somewhere with him ¬ throw away my feelings. My sister goes to his school &gave him a note that told him I like him. It said to reply because I didn't know about it.. &he didn't. I can't move on.. Why didn't he reply? Before I had my sister give him the note, I found out he told my friend he liked me. I can't get over him; there's just something about him and I CAN'T move on.. please help me &give me your opinion. thank you soo much♥♥♥

The next time I will see him is in May. =( What do I do til then? I know people are going to tell me to get over him; just like the people in my life.. but I CAN'T. I can't throw my feelings away.. I forgot to add something; he told my sister he didn't know if he was going to write back.. why couldn't he just tell her straight out the real answer? He left me hanging & I can't throw my feelings away even if he DOESN'T like me..

The next time I see him is in May.. My uncle ALWAYS sees his dad and he's joked around to the kid I like saying "call my niece" but he just smiled.. Also I can't just call him because I've never rly talked to him... =( and he'd wonder how I got his number.. I don't want him to think I'm a stalker.

P.s. to all the 18 answers I've gotten so far, thank you so much. I really need different opinions and it means a lot to me. ♥

I'm sorry I made this so long, there's just so many details.

to the 22 answers so far: thank you guys alot. I don't think I'm going to pick a "best answer" because all of the opinions meant a lot to me. Thank you so much it means a lot to me you're reading this. ♥

Answer 1

you should ask him out...

Answer 2

Okay, the fact that you wrote him a note.. a "love letter" speaks volumes to me! Lol, you are so young. This is cute.

I would have to label this as infatuation. Do you think about him all the time? Do you lay in bed and wish he was next to you, do you daydream about running up to him and kissing him, without even saying a word? These are signs of infatuation.

It's not love, but a lot like it. It's fun, so enjoy it and don't let it kill ya too much, because eventually it will fade. Best of luck!

Answer 3

I think it is best to wait. These things take time. See what happens in May. I know it is hard to wait but it is best. Maybe he will become less shy over the next couple of months. But, if you do get a relationship with him, don't be too distacted. You could fail a big test this way. Best of luck to you!.

Answer 4

Oh well, maybe it is best to write this fellar and tell him what a great time u had over the summer and all.
See if he can meet u at a skating rink and u two skate and get to know each other.
Help him grow out of his shyness. Always give him some chewing gum to calm him down.

Answer 5

i no how u feel heres wat u need 2 do if he really likes u throw a lil party and invit him show him off 2 ur friends and just sort of hang with him b/c u will more than likely the only 1 he nos but he he nos som1 else stay with him talk 2 him ask ? is good 2 get him talking and if he likes u he wont talk a lot but will turn red or he will talk a alot but he will just zone in on u ok b/c thats how i got my bf 2 talk but u cood get a friend 2 ask him if likes at the party and if he turns red as u do then he likes u alot trust me on this i no wat im talking about b/c thats sort of how i got my bf and now im happy but u need 2 pic which plan u like the best but ther both risky Good Luck=)

Answer 6

I'm in a sort of similar situation... i fell for my best friends brother then found out from her that she had been tryin to fix us up for the past 2 years... anyway we havent told eachother we like eachother but just be patient... the guy i like is really shy too so i'm willing to wait b/c i know in my heart he's worth the wait... good luck...

Answer 7

do no longer cry your self to sleep. do no longer capture your self in a delusion approximately that "one guy" who you would be with continuously. in case you have no longer even dated a individual in the previous what you're doing is an rather undesirable plan. i'm happy to tell you which you're inflicting your individual themes. no longer that each and every physique persons at the instant are not victims to this as quickly as in awhile. If the boy asks you out, evaluate him and in case you like his business corporation then "pass out". All which skill is which you are going to be spending extra time at the same time. in case you do no longer get excitement from it you could basically get out of it. if your immaculate weigh down Andre comes around later, he will. If no longer, you could pursue him, yet know that relentlessly crushing on a guy for this long without taking action will become risky. i've got been in comparable situations and that i won't be ready to tell you techniques happy i'm to have escaped them. forget approximately each and every of the valueless rules and rules, the "suited thank you to do issues" that society has taught you and basically have relaxing. get excitement from your existence and young ones at the same time as you nonetheless have it, lest you would be regretting it continuously interior the destiny. you're alive for this 2nd and all of the peace and glory you will locate in it.

Answer 8

well, he's shy first of all, you said that. guys really have a hard time expressing their feelings, so don't take that personally. he probably didn't know what to say back. i was in this same situation last year. i hope it all works out for you. i know how hard it is to try to get through every day wondering if he loves you back. just try to convince your family to get together with his family soon, that way you can hang out with him again. good luck and best wishes!! xox

Answer 9

Well sweetie you did say he was shy..Maybe when he found out that you really liked him that made him shyer...Just give him time ok..Never rush a relationship for when you do that is generally when you will loose it...Just calm down and trust your heart..If it is meant to be then you will hear from him...Keep the faith and always follow your heart...God bless you

Answer 10

u need 2 talk 2 him and tell him how u feel...arrange 2 b somewhere where he is gonna b...but don't let him no ur going 2 an event he's gonna b @...talk 2 him then...but b casual about it, keep ur cool...don't call & talk 2 him about it cause that mite make u seem desperate...if he really likes u though he probably would have called u by now...

Answer 11

i think that he didn't reply cuz it probably just is awkward for him. also i think it is better if you just wait. i have been in a similar position and i think that it is good to just wait and see where life takes you. i am really sorry but this relation doesn't sound meant to be, plus there are tons of other great people out there.