I cheated on my boyfriend his best mates so i came clean and told him the truth and we finished! My mates hated me for it but i eventually won them back, so then i decieded to tell them how much i liked my ex`s best mate and they advised me to ask him out.. when i did he turned me down... now i am dating his best mate but i jst found out the guy i asked out (who i really fancy) now fancys me... Do i finish my boyfriend for this guy and risk losing my mates?
My boyfriend is the guy i was having trouble with in a later question.
My previous boyfriend now has someone new (my best mate) he says hes completly over me but still keeps sending hate mail when i try to talk to him he wont listen. What do i do?
Sorry theres so many best mates and yes i no i must be a ****... awell
2006-12-26 13:01:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't date until you can handle this sort of thing :)
2006-12-26 13:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have some time on your own,have a laugh with your mates and give yourself some breathing space and some you time and see how you feel after that,you might meet someone new.Mate are meant to stick by you and not judge,so don't be too worried what they think-make you happy no 1
2006-12-26 13:06:43 · answer #2 · answered by NATALIE W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to say this but it really sounds like a) your not mature enough to be handling relationships or b) you dont know what you want, you reall yneed to sit dont and think about what your doing, think about how many people you will have hurt in such a short space of time, is it really worth it? and leave your ex alone, he needs time away from you to get over you, dont push him
2006-12-26 13:07:12 · answer #3 · answered by cookie 85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being such a prize ****, and find a life. you can't go on messing or hurting people in the way you are. the favor maybe returned one day, you know. think about it. would you like the same done to you. and as you get older, you will find you will become less desireable.
2006-12-26 13:23:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend probably tried to hook you up with another guy because she can freely move in on your ex, which is what she is doing..
the best mate that you liked would probably have been guilty with going out with you, his best freinds ex.. but now that he knows your ex is on the market again, he thinks its ok to come out at admit his feelings..
follow your heart about who you like best, it's all complicated in the end im afraid!
2006-12-26 13:06:52 · answer #5 · answered by 18/M/Scotland 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not risk loosing your mates.. boyfriends come and go but friends are always there for you in time of need..
2006-12-26 13:05:34 · answer #6 · answered by Promise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really wouldn't dream of judging anyone but your a HO Ho HO.
Merry Christmas.
2006-12-26 13:07:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do them all. Do everyone. Invite them all over and just let them all go at it. Then they will all like you.
2006-12-26 13:06:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope all of your mates ditch you
2006-12-27 05:24:19 · answer #9 · answered by rjhamuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try confused.com
2006-12-26 13:04:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋