I really like this guy and I'm not sure if he likes me back, I don't really know what to do. I am really shy and just coming out and telling him is not some thing I am even considering.
Help me please
2006-12-26 12:55:28 · 22 answers · asked by Shygurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And this is why we need more guys that take initiative in this world lol.. I say just pay attention to the way he acts around you, you don't always have to straight up ask him if he like you.. you can always tell by the eyes or sometimes what comes out his mouth. But the safest thing is to watch his actions and dont take action yet cuz that usually screws things up early.
2006-12-26 12:59:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to start you could get together with like a group of friends and ask him if he'd like to join. then just get to know him. find out what he's interested in. does he share anything in common with you. also if you make some good progress and he still doesn't ask you out then i am sorry if this sounds rude but you will just have to try and do it. i know this probably all sounds really awkward but it will be ok. the worst that can happen is that he says no. there is always someone else out there who is jealous of you.
2006-12-26 20:59:06 · answer #2 · answered by linkielock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you can find out it to be honest with him and let him know. I don't think it's weird that your nervous at all...but I guess just find a time where you can talk to him. If it is a good friend...then I would do an activity that you usually do together and kinda kid with him a lil....if not, then I guess to just get over your fear and go for it is the best way. I mean, what do you have to lose?
2006-12-26 20:59:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Start up a casual conversation. 'Hey I heard you did really well at your soccer game last night" Or something along those lines. After you do that a couple times, start to flirt, and then hopefully he will get the point.
2006-12-26 20:58:47 · answer #4 · answered by Christie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as a guy I know when someone likes me chances are he probably already knows. Be gutsy tell him you like him. Whats the worst that can happen, he'll tell you what he'll tell you he doesn't like you back and you can move on and stop dwelling on it.
2006-12-26 20:58:34 · answer #5 · answered by ISzejko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must learn to drop hints and flirt a little. Don't go overboard just nice subtle things. Smile, wink that sort of thing. God luck!
2006-12-26 20:59:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him would you like to go to the movies with me Tonight if he says no that still dont mean he dont like you he may be afraid of getting to serious with you and getting you pregnant or maybe he is shy its hard to say i am just telling you how i felt
2006-12-26 21:04:12 · answer #7 · answered by pappydig33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my 16 year old daughter tends to tell a few of her friends when she likes a certain guy and it eventually gets back to him. If he likes her too, then he approaches her, if not, no one is hurt.
Good Luck : )
2006-12-26 21:00:55 · answer #8 · answered by SheDreamsOfDragons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o trust me i know how that feels but you can't hold it in cause you will spend the rest of your life wondering what could have been so just go for it what do you have to loose
2006-12-26 21:02:11 · answer #9 · answered by skittlez978 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him warm up to it first. Just start with some innocent conversations. That way it will make dropping the bomb easier.
2006-12-26 20:56:47 · answer #10 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋