I recently decided to stop dating girls from church and to just stick with the ones that don't go at all. Why? Because out of the many years that I have attended church, I have noticed that many of the supposed "Christian good girls" that I have attended church with only went to church either because their friends did or they are trying to find their "Mr. Perfect." They could care less about the real reason that people are supposed attend church; that being worship. Anyway, speaking of dating, many of these girls are extremely judgmental (which is not very christian-like behavior) when it comes to guys and 90 percent of the time, they choose to date the "Bad Boy" who always gets into trouble and has a bad reputation around town (which also doesn't seem like christian behavior). Anyway, these girls really piss me off because they act like they are complete angels at church, but yet their outside-of-church actions say otherwise. I have found non-christian girls to be more genuine.
2006-12-26 12:54:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it depends if they are truly christians or they only go to church dragged by their parents...
2006-12-26 12:57:39 · answer #1 · answered by ~♥Jade♥~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally act the same in church and out. Non-churchgoing girls may be more genuine in general in the area where you live, but there are always exceptions. And you're right, christians aren't supposed to act that way. Unfortunately, many do. Many need to learn that just going to church isn't enough; you have to put effort into becoming a better person.
2006-12-26 21:00:27 · answer #2 · answered by pseudonym 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its amazing that you say that, because i feel the same way. I think a lot (not all) church girls are just there because they were forced to. I think that a lot of these girls are so sick of their "christian ways" that they rebel. as for dating the rebels in town, its probably because thats their "other half" because what they can't do the bad boy can. I think you need to find a christian girl, but someone who is a genuine christian. Or go to a differnt church to find these girls. I promise they are out there, sometimes it takes a little digging. good luck!
maybe pray for these girls, maybe thats all they need!
good luck =]]
2006-12-26 21:04:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your reasoning seems a little off to me, sorry to say. First, you say that these girls are attending church because they are trying to find "Mr. Perfect," and in the next line, you say they choose to date the "Bad Boy?" Hmmm...not sure about that. Regardless, I think you are being too judgemental by lumping every girl in church into one category...also not very Christian-like. "Let he who cast the first stone..." or something like that. I think you are about as apt to find as many fake girls outside of church as you are inside the church. But not all girls, in general, are as you describe. And personally, I don't think you should categorize them. You should be judging each girl by their own unique qualities, not whether or not they attend services. Hope this helps.
2006-12-26 21:08:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah i have noticed the same thing but there are some girls out there that are nice christian girls. I'm a christian girl and im not judgmental but i really wont go out with the guy if he is not a good christian guy.
2006-12-26 21:08:53 · answer #5 · answered by Brooke H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Going to church doesn't make you a christian anymore than going to a garage makes you an automobile. Billy Sunday
2006-12-26 21:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by bubu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find that to be stereotyping. Making judgmental comments about a group of people is a very foolish thing to do.
2006-12-26 21:00:03 · answer #7 · answered by NICOLE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are worse! Church going girls are what dreams are made of! wink wink
2006-12-26 20:58:45 · answer #8 · answered by Mark C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they arent all like that.....seems like you are the one judging imo
2006-12-26 21:01:55 · answer #9 · answered by judy b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even worse
2006-12-26 20:58:14 · answer #10 · answered by schuschtermat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋